Does your s.o. know?

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  1. loves2ride

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    Seeing Cle's recent threads "Women's lies & Men's lies" reminded me of a thread I was going to start at one time....hopefully it's not something already on a current thread. Pardon' moi, if so. :)

    *Does your S.O. know that you are a member of SF (or any other "Sexually oriented" sites)?

    *If not, what do you think they would say or do about it? Would it cause problems?

    *How would they feel about you posting (or sharing) your pictures on the site(s) or to other men or women privately?

    I'll start....
    My husband knows I'm on here, he's on here too. He is the one who originally told me about this site....
    "Go play, have fun", he said :D
     
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    @loves2ride it will be fun.......he said ;)
    Yes she knows and checks my posts sometimes when she wants to start something pre-menstrual.
     
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    She knows this is where I post the pictures. She does not care what I do online, whether on a site or privately, as long as it's relatively safe and secure.
     
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    We are both on here and share the same account :)
     
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    Yay! But Bummer on the pre-menstrual part Bushy. :eek:
     
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    Yes she knows I visit here and does not approve - thinks I am depraved and she is probably right LOL :)
     
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    yes half the time I'm here she is sitting next to me
    that's why I have a hard time typing sometimes LOL
     
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    Well I do not have an S.O. anymore but when I did she did not know and would not approve and her reasons are part of many issuea that led to seperation.

    Oh , and there is a position open , apply within lol

    Come on...that is funny
     
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    It is sad funny dude but at least you have not lost your sense of humour ;)
     
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    Yes ,mine plays on another site herself, I followed someone over here and I play here as well. ;)
     
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    Yes he knows and doesn't care
     
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    She knows and doesn't like it, but i don't flirt nor post pictures, so she really has no say in the matter...I did tell her I'd quit as soon as she gave up cigarettes, I'm not holding my breath.
     
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    I think you all know he is aware. He actual found he site when I was curious if other ladies in their early 40's were turning into nymphos.A year later I'm still here. :)

    I don't share pics and the ones I did have up were mostly approved. ;)

    He would not like me sharing nudes nor would I like him sharing and we only share with each other. I have never posted a nude btw.
     
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    Tell her if she kept you more occupied, you wouldn't be so depraved ;) :)
     
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    LOL there are "Positions" available ;):D
     
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    A big yes here. Zero secrets. We know we've been given a window of "us time". We raised our kids, very well I might add. We have been outstanding members in our community seriously we've walked the line. We are not grandparents yet. Instead of having an affair during our midlife crisis we've been having an amazing affair with eachother. SF has been such a fun escape for us both. We both have free access to each others accounts. My husband enjoys others admiring me. This I would have never known without SF. It has been a gateway for our over all communication.
     
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    That's Awesome!! Happy for you two! :)
     
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    Not really an issue for me -- what with the being single and all that. Before, though, my partners always knew. It wouldn't sit right with me to lie or be evasive about something so potentially upsetting. (You know how so many people get with this "naughty" sexual stuff. :p)

    As for sharing... Well, I'm past that now personally. Don't do it. I find I prefer to Maintain The Mystery. And I wouldn't ever share content containing a partner (or partners) without their express approval or request for me to do so.
     
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    That gets an extra "Like" :)
     
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    It's an easy question for me as we meet on Sexforums. Just coming up to 5 years ago. We have no secrets

    (as far as i know :) )

    She doesn't post much on this site. But keeps an eye on my post :D