Does your partner know...

Discussion in 'The Lounge' started by BiBiBaby, Jul 31, 2004.

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Does Your Partner Know?

  1. Yes...he/she comes too

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  2. Yes...but its just my thing

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  3. No...but it wouldnt be a big deal

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  4. No...THANK GOD

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  1. BiBiBaby

    BiBiBaby New Member

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    Does your partner know that you come here?

    Personally my boyfriend knows I go to a forum but I dont want him knowing which...if he asks me about sex i answer honestly but i'd rather he didnt read my posts!!
     
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    virgo_bytchXXX New Member

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    my bf knos bout this. hes also on it. williewonka561 :) -thas my baby
     
  3. Tson56

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    I try to be open on the subject,but I'm like BiBi,I wouldn't want my partner to read what I wrote.
     
  4. WillieWonka561

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    jnrain New Member

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    I don't have a partner currently, but if I did I'd tell him I came here.
     
  6. WillieWonka561

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    I dont see what the big deal is really, the forum is about sex...A Human Nature.

    If you arent into sex, then you simply plain out are not human.
     
  7. BiBiBaby

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    yes, its definitly human nature... and like i said, if my boyfriend wants to talk about sex i'm very open about it... I guess the annominity (sp?) of the internet makes me phrase things differently, and i'm afraid if he read them he'd be put off, even though i quite willingly tell him the same things, but in different words...
     
  8. queen cat

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    Yes he knows that I go on a forum about sex, but Im not happy if he`d read my views etc. :eek

    Cause im not sure he`d mind or not :eyes
     
  9. The Answer

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    if i was still with sum1 they would kill me...lol
     
  10. KoenigNazgul

    KoenigNazgul New Member

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    I posted here with regards to my then girlfriend, I later told her, she came and read everything then tried to make me feel like shit...it worked. Lamerang, oh well, fuck her.
     
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    I don't think I would tell my b/f, he's not computer literate anyways.
     
  12. Still Single

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    Not currently dating anyone, but if I was, I wouldn't mind letting her know that I post here.
     
  13. tar gar

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    No

    I just joined the forum recently but I dont think my wife needs to know.
     
  14. lancer674

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    My girlfriend knows about this forum but doesn't participates. But she does get into discussions if I ask her about a comment that i have read here. She has read a few of my comments that I have written.
     
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    This is my time. She doen't need to know everything I do.
     
  16. Rose

    Rose Resident Sexy Grandma
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    My husband came here first. He turned me on to this site. He joined first, then I joined later. We just read things for several months, till we really felt like we wanted to contribute to some of the discussions.
    Sometimes, we are both on our laptops at the same time, both logged in & posting. I'm sure a therapist would have a field day with that! LOL
     
  17. ggroneet

    ggroneet New Member

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    I really don't understand why you don't want to tell your partners... it just shows how you communicate (which doesn't say much about you). Try to talk openly about these things... Maybe if you share these forum you would learn more things about each other...
     
  18. Thorn

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    :tup I agree. My wife and I communicate better now than ever as far as sex is concerned. It's never too late to try to improve on communication between couples, but the earlier the easier. We are both new to this forum and we see a lot on here that we can relate to. We sometimes read a post and pick up a little thing or two that enhances our sex life. :brow
     
  19. BiBiBaby

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    My man and i are very open in our communication, about our relationship and our sex lives... sometimes however i dont know how to broach a subject or am interested in some advice or a 2nd opinion...
     
  20. ggroneet

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    at least let him know what your want to know, maybe he can help you. share your thoughts and flounderings. why don't you want him to know you are interested in some advice or second opinion? (and on what?!!)
    Maybe you should think whether you are completely honest with him... would you like him to hide emotions/thoughts from you?