Ok, I dont get this. I've gone out with a lot of guys I consider cute or hot and usually they want to do stuff (kiss, have sex) They seem into the date/meet-up (whatever you want to call it.) They come up with ideas and do things which suggest they find me attractive. They call me to their house, they start up the kissing/touching, etc. And as I said, these are the guys I would class as good looking. Well, I was tired of that stuff because it seemed to me most of those guys were just about sex. So what did I decide? I decided I would go after the nerds, dorks, the calm guys, and maybe not as good looking. Result? They seemed uncomfortable. They seemed like they met a ghost. They made excuses that they had work or that they had to do something so our meet-up was cut short. So I'm trying to figure this out. How could these types of guys not like me? I met two of these types of guys recently, the nights went as a I described, and never heard from them again. What's the deal here?