OK, Here is the deal. After having our 3rd child, My wife has decided not to have sex with me until I get a vecectomy. At first, she was going to get her tubes tied, but the week before the operation, we decided that her health (high blood pressure,etc) was not in the best shape and I would get "the snip". Now it has been over 2 months and my FIRST appointment is this week. Its is ONLY a consultation. I believe that after the actual operation, you have to bring "samples" to the lab twice before you are determined to be sterile. I'm looking at quite a long time with NO SEX. You see, she will not do ANYTHING sexual. Apparently, blowjobs are a thing of the past. No 69. No handjobs (I BEGGED one night- nothing). I can't stand it anymore. I'm angry all the time, frustrated, masterbating way too much (in my opinion), looking way too longingly at every girl I see. I'm losing my mind. I've told her how I feel over and over and she just doesnt care. In fact, she usually just gets mad at me. I was wondering what others thought. Am I just making a big deal out of nothing? Is she crazy? HELP!