Does stress make you horny?

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  1. Barbwire

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    When I tell people that stress makes me horny, they are very often shocked. Am I the only one?
     
  2. Dreama

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    No. Stress does that to me too. I think it's the escape of the sexual act that appeals to me, when I'm stressed.
     
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    Drema, I was thinking along the same lines.
    Sex would definitely relieve the stress.
    Although I'm not sure that stress would make me horny.

    Hiker
     
  4. Barbwire

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    As for me, the more chaotic things are around here, the more sexual energy I have. Right now, I'm boiling over with sheer lust, man!
     
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    When i get nervous about something i tend to get horny or at least need release as it calms me. And stress has a similar effect. But i don't know if it is just because i know that it is going to make me feel better.
     
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    The ONLY time...

    ...I ever get horny, even a little bit is if and ONLY if;

    I am awake
    I am asleep
    Days ending in 'y'
    It's hot outside
    It's cold outside
    It is mild outside
    I've eaten
    I am hungry
    It is daylight
    It is dark
    It is dusk
    I am stressed
    I am relaxed
    I am in a so so mood.
    The wind is blowing
    It is calm
    Leap years
    Non leap years

    And that's it. There maybe one or two I missed, but I am not someone who just gets horny out of the clear blue sky. Specific conditions must be in place or it just doesn't happen.
     
  7. cook74

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    Maybe you just need a hug?? :p
     
  8. Barbwire

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    Alright, I'm all better now, just fired off a couple. Now I'm ready for a nap. :ugh
     
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    Then again mahaps She just needs a good Fuck.

    Hiker
     
  10. Barbwire

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    Hear hear!
     
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    It doesn't make me horny but it's a great way for me to relieve stress.
     
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    Stress makes me angry rather than horny, my troubled past drives me to enjoy (as much as I can) every minute of every day. Stress gets in the way of my enjoyment of life.

    But sex relieves stress and confusion, and afterwards I think much more clearly.

    On a related note, the absolute best sex we ever had was after one of our very rare arguments. It was raw, energetic, passionate, and both of us were affected. After, I think we'd forgotten what the disagreement was. It's called make-up sex, but it only works when you're still angry with each other.
     
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    I definately get horny whenever I'm stressed out. Nothing like a few orgasms to calm me down and help me focus on the task before me.... unless I fall asleep first
     
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    I get so wet when I get stressed sometimes, I can orgasm
    if my clothes rub me the right way after, like when I wear
    tighter jeans or something like that.
     
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    Ladies I wish my wife was like you,but she isn't.When she gets all stressed she gets all upset,cries and don't even think about sex.She tells me that sex is far from her mind when she gets like that.
     
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    You're not the only one... when particularly stressed I usually (but not always) am more, uh, "excitable". :)
     
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    Damn...I hear that. I'm in the same boat with my wife. Oh well...Nothing to do but console her and hope that she starts to feel better :brow
     
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    :D You beat me to it...I was going to say that everything makes me horny...including stress.

    BD
     
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    Yes. The other thing that does it, and makes me insane, is illness. For some bizarre reason, when I get sick, I get horny. Very odd, since I'm certainly at my least appealing in both situations :).
     
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    I'm a total bitch where I'm stressed. In a way I do function quite well when under pressure but I can be hard on the people around me. As for sex its not that I get especially horny but I do want sex. My tastes change a bit though I become way more aggressive and physical and expect men to be much more dominant.

    Guys have had mixed views on me when I'm like this. Some have loved it expecially the guys into rough stuff.hubbie really doesn't like it and finds it off putting but I've been stress free basically for the last two years so it doesn't come up though I think he has flash backs to the few times we had sex when I was particularly stressed. To be honest I always had a little bit more difficulty, getting physically aroused and oragaming when I was stressed even when the guys were doing everything I wanted.

    Anywho here's to a stress free life from now on.