[Ask a Girl] Does seeing your husband / boyfriend with another man turn you on?

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  1. Marcpatrick

    Marcpatrick New Member

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    I ask this, because it's something my girlfriend has confessed to fantasizing about. I'm not sure what to make of it, and I guess I just want to find out if it's natural for women to have these kind of fantasies.

    Or if you have acted out on this, how was it and was it an experience worth repeating?
     
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    This is something I've definitely fantasized about. It never really was a fantasy until my S.O. told me he was straight and it wouldn't happen.

    A little background on us: we're in a 24/7 TPE (Total Power Exchange) relationship, with my being the dominant one. So, when he tells me something "isn't going to happen", well I start devising ways to *make* it happen. >=)

    As a side note, do you think stroking his cock while whispering "Didn't Tony look HOT in those jeans tonight" will work?

    Yeah, I didn't think so, either. Oh well, there's always porn. :p
     
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    Hi Squeak,

    How does TPE work? Does he do the dishes while you read the newspaper? Or is it purely sexual?
    I let my gf dominate (when it suits me), but I worry that if I let it get too far, she will lose respect for me, so I am very conscious of maintaining a balance of power. I do like women dominating me, but my experiences (which may be wrong) have shown me that women in general like a man to be in charge ultimately.
    However, I do feel I am in charge enough in so much that I allow her to dominate me too, when I feel like it, meaning I am controlling the situation, meaning that I am really the dominating one I guess.
    Damn this is confusing. It's late so I'm probably losing my ability to make sense :p
     
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    I wouldn't mind if my girl acted a little more dominating at times, but she just doesn't seem into that.

    Marcpatrick...sounds like you have a MMF threesome waiting to happen if the boy of you are interested. I'm sure it woudln't be terribly hard to find the third.
     
  5. Lucky

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    Nope, I am the possesive type, why would I be turned on by another guy doing my wife when I am perfectly happy doing that job myself.
     
  6. bikinigirl

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    I think it's a double standard for girl on girl to be so normal but for us ladies to want guy on guy is apparently crazy.
     
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    True but double standards do exist. I really never get off to girl on girl either though, girl and guy are my turn ons. So is your answer yes it turns you on?
     
  8. bikinigirl

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    Of course it turns women on, cmon, hot sweaty guys in a locker room...
    The same thing applies to girls.
     
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    Touche! But you never said room full of girls in a locker room, that I can get off too!