Does liking trannies/shemales make a guy gay?

Discussion in 'Sexual Fetishes and Fantasies' started by saraseasprite, Jun 10, 2005.

  1. saraseasprite

    saraseasprite New Member

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    If a guy likes tranny/shemale porn, but has sex with women, is he gay?

    Would you think it was okay for a girl to be involved with a guy into tranny porn?

    (He also likes normal and anal porn too, not just tranny)
     
  2. Eros

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    Gay, Straight, Bi - honestly the terms are probably still too 'absolute' and boxed in to apply to everyone. I think that there is just individual sexuality - which is never wrong (unless someone is getting hurt). When guys or girls care about another person deeply, they usually want to please them and try to understand what they like. I have recently told my wife some things that I like and i was pleasantly suprised that she was happy to help. And visa versa - she confided some things i was suprised at - while they may not be my thing - but it turns me on to turn her on, so in some strange way it all works out. I think if the non-sexual side of the relationship is healthy, then the sexual side - however it may be - will be fine and wonderful too. Hope my opinion helped in some way. Cheers!
     
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    Dear Sara Sea Sprite,

    Images that turn men on, are often quite different from their ordinary practices. Visualizaton for men is usualy covers a much broader range of enjoyment, than visualization enjoyment for most women.

    So your visions will probably be closer to your own tastes. Whereas for men, tastes in porn is less related to his actual tastes in sexual partners.

    Porn use is ordinarily kept secret by men, because their enjoyment of visions in porn is often beyond what the scope of their reliability when in a committed relationship.

    Porn can enhance reliabiilty of a man in a committed relationship, if erotic images are used to supplement the man's sex drive, when his committed lover is unavailable.

    You might ask him to keep his tastes in porn more secretively. Geing a good Lover means keeping secrets.

    Blessings