Lets say you've met someone. They're great, you're really attracted to them and would love to give it a go. You think they're attracted to you too. But they are already in a long term relationship... What do you do? I ask because I think maybe there's something missing from my conscience. I mean I am by no means a selfish person... in fact I'd like to think I was generally a nice, respectful guy with a good set of morals. But when it comes to girls that I like that are already in relationships I just feel nothing. Which is odd, because after my last relationship broke up and I experienced what it's like to go through a breakup with someone who means a lot to you, I thought I would have a new respect for others' relationships. But it's just not there. So my question is this: in a situation like what I described above, do you back off and respect what the couple has together or do you go in for the kill anyway?