Does it bother you for your partner to wear a fragrance or perfume when making Love?

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  1. lovemypolish

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    As the subject line, does it bother you if your partner wears a fragrance or perfume when making love?


    Jazzgirl

    PS. Nothing Cheap in fragrance or perfume, something really nice???
     
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    I think the better question is along the lines of "do you enjoy the taste of perfume?" Or "do you mind a face full of smell as you're as close as you'll ever get to your SO"

    Yes, if strong smells are present, it bothers me. If you spray yourself immediately before sex, all I'll taste when I kiss your body is the perfume and that's unpleasant.
     
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    You are so spot on, I agree it needs to be light in the smell so we can both enjoy and not cough our heads off, when you are trying to give or get head, lol.
     
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    Yes it would bother me, it would interfere with his natural scent ..... and taste.
     
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    It didn't use to bother me. Now we don't use any fragrances or deodorant so just a little bit bothers me. Unless I'm really into it the smell over rides everything else.
     
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    That's about right on
     
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    I'd rather have his natural smell and taste. Save the cologne/aftershave/perfume for after the shower and you get dressed
     
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    I am into all things sensual so do enjoy certain fragrances, some being intensely sexy.
    It depends on the woman 's chemistry if it adds to attraction or not. I enjoy following a faint trail intentionally designed to destination ;)
     
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    Thank the gods, the boyfriend got over his phase of spraying those high-schoolish things on himself, whatever they're called. A little something masculine when we go out for the evening is nice. But in bed later in the evening, I don't want to smell (or taste) it on his chest and so on.
     
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    My wife used to dab little spots of perfume on different parts of her body and I would explore her whole body till I found them. behind the ear, the small of her back, behind a knee... It was great foreplay. Ended up kissing every inch of her body.
     
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    I find it sensual.
     
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    I love it when the scent has worn off throughout the day to the point where I couldn't smell it until the sexy times started. Something about the barely there scent that only I can smell... Usually mixed with man smell by then too. =]
     
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    We are not into that. We both prefer each others smell. We both try to stay clean as a general rule (daily bath/shower, plus additional if after some type of strenuous activity other than sex). Also, my wife tends to be allergic to those things.
     
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    Are we talking just some cologne or perfume left on from them getting ready that night? Or like, putting some on before having sex?

    The former, I like. The faint scent of some perfume/cologne that they had been wearing (especially if it's stuff that they wear often), is kind of erotic, IMO.

    But the latter, I would not like.
     
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    I don't mind a sexy scent, but if you saw our bathroom some days you would think my wife shakes baby powder into the air and dances in the floating dust cloud.

    I can tell you for a fact I do not like the taste of baby powder.
     
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