G'day all. I was kissing my boyfriend and NAKED and was about to suggest he put a condom on when i realised he wasn't even hard. This startled me. So i asked if anything was wrong, and he said no. So we kept kissing and I upped the anti, and then he became hard. No biggy. I didn't even think about it. The next day i start making suggestive actions, and took a look at the bulge in his pants- and it wasn't there as it would have been a month ago. So i contemplated and asked him why. Some back story. I've been with him over a year, been having sex with him only 6 months. Previously he would get an erection if i even LOOKED at him, or if he pecked me. This is fully clothed. Even if we started talking about marriage, or moving in, it would arouse him. I've moved in only for the past month. Now he said he didn't get aroused because he knows i'm not leaving so the excitement isn't there as it was before. He said this started about 3 months ago but i've only noticed it as of yesterday. I have never had to work so hard to get him hard (pun partially intended). I cried. But instead of wallowing i got dressed up in a corset, high heels, fish nets, the works, in a robe. Let him undress me, gave him head, and rode him until he came. Interestingly the last 3 times we've had sex he's said are the best orgasms he ever had, and we didn't even do it ever day. It can't be that he's bored. We're only a year in, had sex for only 6 months, and it's already becoming something hard to get started.... Is this normal in a good relationship???? I always thought that even after being married to someone 30 years, that a slight suggestive movement, should arouse a man. Is this guys slowly losing sexual interest in me???