Does anyone prefer when their partner smokes?

Discussion in 'Ask a Guy/Girl' started by scar69, Dec 31, 2014.

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Would u rather date a smoker or nonsmoker?

  1. smoker

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  2. nonsmoker

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    85.0%
  1. scar69

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    ive only heard 1 person my entire life say they prefer dating a smoker over a nonsmoker; what do u prefer?
     
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    Non smoker. Deal breaker.

    Two family members had lung cancer.
     
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    It's pretty much a deal breaker for me. I dated a smoker for a brief time and any time I made out with him it was like licking an ash tray. Very, very unpleasant. I don't fancy doing that ever again.
     
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    Non-Smoker. 1. I'm allergic to cigarette smoke. 2. I have watched the most beautiful women put a cigarette in their mouth and I had to turn away. It just ruined it for me.
     
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    I'm guilty of having been a long-time smoker (3 months smoke-free! Yeah, baby!), so it'd be unfair of me to discriminate. Honestly, it wouldn't really bother me much - but my preference would be non-smoker.
     
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    Nope I don't. It's a deal breaker for me.
     
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    If I slow down, she doesn't smoke
     
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    Have you tried one of the smoke-free lubricants?
     
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    Nope, same as most; deal breaker no matter qualities!
     
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    Huge turn off. I've dealt with it for a while but in the end it wouldn't work out. And it's not just the smell ...or taste. The whole thing when we are out having to have a " smoke break" , or " I gotta stop and get cigarettes" and such that drives me nuts
     
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    It could be the most beautiful woman in the world, if she lights up, no thanks.
     
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    absolutely - sorry but I am fussy on that score
     
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    Can't really judge without being a hypocrite... I smoke myself.
     
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    I find it interesting that there are 13 votes against smokers and the majority are saying deal breaker. Honestly , in my area , some of the more " well known " promiscuous woman always find someone .... or multiple partners , one night stands , Fwb , and so on. I am one of those people that saw past it for a few times and , well , complained about it lol
     
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    The responses seem to be from people with more committed relationships though.
     
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    Of all of the women I've been with, I've never dated a smoker and never would. It's disgusting. Twice I've ask girls to dance and the second I got a hint of smoke, I left them on the dance floor.
     
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    Yeah I guess that does make sense
     
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    Im not sure what committed relationships have to do with preferences on whether or not someone smokes?

    Unless you're referencing casual one night type of stuff in response to doitagain.
     
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    If it's just one night, you are generally after one thing.
    The more committed the less likely you are to settle.
    Maybe a person would put up with the smoking for one night but not long term.
     
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    Actually, I'd be less inclined if approaching something with a casual attitude. There's nothing more than surface-level stuff when you're operating on a casual basis.
    If approaching something with a more committed/long-term attitude then I'd actually be less harsh in judgement. People can (usually do) change with time and reevaluate choices they've made.