Does any ladies enjoy smaller penis?

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  1. AntonioPiccolo

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    Hi ladies,



    I need an honest answer, I have basically been not able to have sex because I am embarrassed about my size. I only have a 5 inches length but 5 inches wide thick.

    Does any ladies enjoy smaller penis?
     
  2. Barbwire

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    I've been with a man with a 5 1/2" x 5" penis for 15 years now. It works for me most of the time but when I want a little something extra, a dildo goes the trick.

    Oral skills are much more important to me than penis size.
     
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    I am curious what is the size and length of your man's tongue? Mine is 1.5" length.

    Does tongue size matter during oral sex? This technique can vary depending on the size and length of the tongue but try to move it in and out of her vagina
     
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    HAHA! If I say his tongue is longer than yours will you have toungue envy? Really man, you need to get over measuring everything. The true measure of a man's ability to please a woman can't be taken with a measuring stick. You DO know that, right?

    Oh, and a tongue inserted into my vagina does nothing for me. Its all about the clit.

    In case you don't know this, the majority of women can't orgasm from peenie thrustings alone.
     
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    Yes, I know that, however, some hottest girls told me that they love his long tongue and huge penis. They made me feel it's a bit smaller than average

    I know there are also different sex positions that can help stimulate the clitoris during intercourse. But don't forget, the hands can stimulate as well

    It is very important is that don't be in a hurry to attack her clit. Kiss, nibble, and suck on her mouth, her breasts, her things. Like any sex act. She needs to be relaxed and ready before I start getting serious. Her labia need attention too, and having a tongue pushed up inside of them.
     
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    Mine can.:D Of course she does have a very profound and sensitive G-Spot.

    The big thing is, as CL already mentioned, that it isn't the size, but what you are doing that really matters. Some women love to be on the receiving end of oral, others love a couple of fingers, others get off on attention to their whole body. Talk to your partner, learn what gets her going, and once you master what gets her off, maybe you won't be so hung up on size. I know I was hung up on size, being around the middle of the average range. Once I actually quit thinking about the size, and really listened to what she wanted, I realized that even if I was 13" long, it wouldn't make an ounce of difference, if I'm not doing or trying to do what she likes. Great sex isn't about just blindly humping away, which a lot of people seem to think. It's about making a connection with that special person, and learning what their sexual needs and desires are, and doing the best you can trying to fullfil them.
     
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    Hello!

    Yours is a exact and excellent way of thoughts because ive been in a same criteria and I agree with U a lot.
     
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    Oral sex skills are much more important than penile thrusting, and the usual way is to lick and suck the clitoris, which any man can do. The most effective technique varies from woman to woman. I learned how to do oral sex by asking a partner to show me how she masturbated, and I imitated her rubbing motion with my tongue.

    Your penis size is about average (1 standard deviation), the range of average being 5" to 6" length, and 4.5" to 5" of girth.

    Men get fooled by penis sizes through porn. Porn actors are generally large sized, and special lenses and camera angles are used to make them look bigger than they are (I'd say porn actors are typically 6" to 7" in length, and about 5.5" girth). I base my estimation by comparing their penises with the size of fingers, hands and so on. Some actors, especially African, are quite a bit bigger than that. Those actors would have big problems with regular sex with most women.

    I am at the larger end of the penis size scale, and this has it's good and bad points. On the good side, at a certain length you can stimulate sensitive areas deep inside the vagina, which can and does result in vaginal orgasms from pure thrusting, but only if you know how to do it. With extra girth, you put more pressure on the g-spot and this can make a difference as well. On the bad side, the level of female arousal required for pain-free intercourse is very high, and sometimes can be difficult to achieve if your partner is a bit tired. With a thicker penis, even when fully aroused, prolonged thrusting results in a lot of pain through skin abraison, no matter how well lubricated. Lets say 10 minutes maximum for regular sex, although for a once-off you can relax and take longer. Sometimes it can take a couple of days to recover from this abraison. Oral sex is difficult if not almost impossible, and the same applies to anal sex.

    I think the one good side of size is you don't really have to ask, because you know. Women never pick a boyfriend or husband based on his penis size, but get a lot of satisfaction from a partner who is a good, confident and considerate lover.
     
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    I hate to disagree with Cowboy Lover on anything sexual, but I'll throw caution to the wind. In my experience most women do orgasm from "peenie thrusting." I think my opinion is valid because I've had sex with more women than she has. I have even known women who couldn't orgasm form oral but sure did from screwing, and I've been told that my oral skills are excellent.

    I have a buddy who broke up with his girlfriend. She told a lot of people that he was kind of short in the penis department. He was dating a stripper last year from L.A. When i talked to her I found out that she had done some porn out there. She didn't seem to have a problem with his stuff and you can bet she'd seen larger.

    There is no sense in worrying about things you can't change. Just do your best with what you have and pay attention to what you lady responds to. You'll do fine.
     
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    I wasn't basing that statement on just my own personal experience, it's a well known fact, Sunny Jim. :p

    Google it.

    I do think that a lot of women fact orgasm during intercourse. Why? My reason was, from everything I was led to believe through porn, I was supposed to have an orgasm at the mere sight of a dick and rip off several orgasms within seconds of penetration. I honestly thought there was something wrong with me until I got better educated and realized that I was quite normal.

    Another reason women lie about orgasms is, they want the man to finish because they are tired/sore/disinterested.
     
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    Did you mean "fake orgasm"?
     
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    I think CL meant 'fake orgasms', and she's correct that few women orgasm from intercourse, either regularly or once in a while. She may also be correct about the faking it, although I can't remember a woman faking it with me. But I don't aim to set endurance records, and I always begin with my partner's orgasm before penetration.

    I have had women have vaginal orgasms with me: my wife sometimes and someone else as well. It is possible, using positions that encourage g-spot stimulation, or stimulating an area known as the AFE (near the cervix). I get my best results from the latter. But these are just two women out of the many in my life.
     
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    Yes, that's it, cbrmale, I meant to say, "fake".
     
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    A well known fact based on what? Google it? What would you get but more "personal experiences."

    In my experience all women are different and respond differently. That's why we love you. There is nothing "wrong'" with a woman who can't cum from g spot stimulation she's just different. Some gals are multi orgasmic, some squirt. There's nothing right or wrong with them they are just their own unique selves. I didn't learn any of that from porn. Hell the first porn I saw was Deep Throat. That was about a chick who's clit was supposed to be in her throat. I'd believe a guys doctor measured his dick both soft and hard before I'd believe that.

    By the way my favorite way to make a lady cum is by giving her tender loving oral sex.
     
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    I'm inclined to agree with Cowboy Lover regarding the majority of women not cumming from penetration alone. I can now in my forties but didn't for most of my sexual life. I also believe my friends and relatives when they tell me they need clitoral stimulation to get off, as well as books on the matter.

    By coincidence my boyfriend's penis is about the same size as CL's husband. It makes perfect contact with my g-spot as well as filling me nicely. This is the only man I've had vaginal orgasms with. AntonioPiccolo, your size is fine. :D