Does anal sex hurt?

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  1. Sexual Person

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    And what's so great about it anyway? Why do people love it so much? Butt holes are really small compared to a vagina. So like isn't that gonna hurt?
     
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    Are you a valley girl or what!
     
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    For those of us who still speak a semblance of English could you please explain that?
     
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    "And what's so great about it anyway" - Try it and come back and post again..

    "Why do people love it so much" - Like a virgina but tighter..

    "So like isn't that gonna hurt" - Not when done properly..
     
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    Well done Rosa.
     
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    Hope that explains it.
     
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    Thanks Ed69, educated but still baffled :rolleyes::)
     
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    Thanks Rosa_g
    Educated but still virgin-like wondering :rolleyes:
     
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    You've never had anal ???
     
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    Like wow dude you realy got no clue?Whateva get some in ya home town!loll

    For those not understanding this is 80's tribal speak from the west coast of the U.S.
     
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    The anus has nerve endings that make anal sex feel good. It doesn't hurt if you go slow and use a ton of lube. It's different feeling than vaginal sex and it's an amazing feeling.
     
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    Jj - I'll sacrifice my ass to you if you'd like.... You can't call it an arse though :)
     
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    Nope, Rosa_g never! Even any accidental contact, with no intention, in my ........ experience have been verbally rebuffed or physically avoided :(

    Thanks Honey for your kind offer but I'm not interested in asses, donkeys, even zebras - as an English man if I am going to break my anal virginity it will have to be in a (female) arse.
     
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    I have an ARSE right here JonJo lol.

    anyways back to what the thread is actually about (for those of you who noticed yes I'm back giving my opinion)

    anal sex can be painful, its not necessarily because your doing it wrong it can be nerves etc, I've had painful anal sex and anal sex that I enjoyed,

    if you force it then your gonna be in pain and never want to do it again, my ex husband managed to get me to give it a second chance and I enjoyed it because I was relaxed and had a rampant rabbit in my pussy.

    If you want to try it then go for it, it's not everyone's cup of tea. :rolleyes:
     
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    My ex husband tried to give me anal sex once - I was scared/nervous. It hurt.

    An ex bf fingered my ass, got it ready. We used lots of lube. Had a safe word.

    Sometimes the pain feels good - like sucking on a lemon.

    If it hurts you should stop.

    Never go from ass to pussy without cleaning off though.
     
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    I don't know, but couldn't it make constipation problems much worse for someone if they have kind of problem quite often and then a penis may just make it worse?
     
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    Actually for me afterwards it causes loose stool and usually diarrhea. So no there is no constipation problems from anal.
     
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    I know, oh I know :)

    I have a train timetable here :rolleyes:
     
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    If you like I'll get g to send over his tide time table :confused: lol
     
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    Yes please - and his work schedule, so I can match tides to when he's away:)