[Ask a Girl] Does amount of cum per ejaculation really matter to you?

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  1. Barbwire

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    It seems like a lot of emphasis is placed on amount of cum that jettisons out of a dick. Most often, it's men that bring it up andI don't hear a lot of women chiming in on this.

    As for me, I prefer the cum go inside of my pussy or ass so, volume is of little concern to me. When giving blowjobs however, I prefer a smaller, easier to swallow load.
     
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    i only notice the amount when i swallow and although i don't really care either way, a larger load is always more enjoyed
     
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    I usually get an after-ejaculation summary. If it was a larger than normal (?) load...I get a "damn...theres a lot". If not so much...I get nothin...
     
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    I usually shoot larger than average loads. Although it depends on many factors. I've had once a 14 spurts cumshot and my gf was like "What the fuck?" :) But would say that most women enjoy bigger loads!
     
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    damn so as you do this your having a continuous orgasm ? Luck dog !
     
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    yeah! i do have a good time:D
     
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    I see a larger than usual load as a sign of appreciation.:lol I've actually asked him to hold off wanking for at least a day before our weekend sex just so there's more for me to enjoy.:D
     
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    I usually do enjoy a larger load. I love seeing all of it squirt out of his dick:)
     
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    I like it when the boyfriend cums a big amount. I see it as a sign about how intense it was for him. His pleasure is a big turn-on for me, so I look for all the signs I can. But I have to say that I don't like porn that is all about lots of cum going all over everywhere, and covering the woman, and then she plays with it and so on. It seems that there is a big market for that kind of porn--I assume it includes the same men that you talk about bringing it up.
     
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    When it comes to PIV sex, I always finished inside her so the quantity was unknown and it didn't matter to either of us. Having a big load may feel a bit better but it doesn't always mean better.
     
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    More come usually means more powerful ejaculatory sensations, so it usually feels better for us men. So yes, it's worthwhile being healthy and using L-Argenine, because it does feel better when you come.
     
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    When younger males deliver larger loads and it decreases as age increases.
    I would have thought the relevance of any load has more to do with pregnancy, working on the more the merrier principle.
    I'd say that getting there and delivery / receipt is far more of importance to both parties.
     
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    Not true for all men. My husband told me that he can have powerful orgasms that barely produce any semen and have less powerful orgasms that produce a lot of semen.
     
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    I have been neutered...twice as a matter of fact. I have never noticed a change in the amount of semen comparing before and after. Not sure little swimmie thingies have any thing to do with load amount. Of course, I could be wrong...
     
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    I like a big load.. and I love to watch it
     
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    I enjoy letting loose a large load but Ihave to go easy on the wanking for a bit to build it up.
     
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    very good
     
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    I feel a large load coming now. Watching a lovely pair of tits In a black and red bra bounce in front of me. This could get messy
     
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    To all the men that answered, this is an Ask a Girl thread. What I'm looking for is our female members point of view. Thanks.
     
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    Just trying to help cowboy lover.haha