Since the beginning of our relationship, my gf has not been lovey-dovey towards me. Maybe she just isn't that type. But it's gotten to the point where I don't feel appreciated. She says she likes me and, she wants a future. I'm crazy about her, and I want a future with her as well. She's 19. I don't feel like she's opening up to me. Whenever I try to get her to talk about feelings she cant; it seems like she doesn't have any, I've told her this. She agrees. That's why I think she doesn't like me. She says she would break up with me if she didn't want to be with me, and if she didn't want a future with me. I trust that she would break it off. She wants our relationship to be casual; She thinks it will not last if we are affectionate at the 3 month stage in our relationship. I just wish she would surprise me sometimes, tell me nice things, make me feel appreciated! I text, call her, write her notes. And we I want to talk about feelings she feels smothered. I think she's taking me for granted.