I have a very small penis and I am worried that if I ever got in a relationship my small size would make a boring sex life.
I have a very large penis and suffered a boring sex life until I had an affair, which encouraged my wife to be more experimentative. And now we do roleplay, tantric, s&m, outdoors sex and a few other things besides. Penis size doesn't equate to boredom or no boredom, but like all things in life it still remains a bonus. Does my wife get a lot of pleasure out of my length and girth regardless if it's routine or roleplay? Yes. Would she get as much pleasue out of routine or S&M if I had a small penis. No. This is the dichotmy on penis size. It's not a greatly important component of sex, but bigger is better.
You've got to make sexual satisfaction your goal. Concentrate on your partner's first, then yours 2nd. One thing you need to realize is that you will ALWAYS have the penis you have now. Don't waste any time trying to make it bigger because there's no way to accomplishing it. If you find a partner who isn't satisfied by your efforts, waste no more time on them. Move on.
youd e surpirsed how many women dont actually like big penis's. im 5ft 2 weighing 7.5 stone and im really petite all over! i hate big penises they hurt and you cant go for long because it starts to feel uncomfortable. Its not the size its how you use it if not try some plumping penis cream before you have sex it can apparently make it feel bigger!!
I agree that the size is not what's important. Seems it is more of a bragging issue for well endowed men. I've been with both very large, normal, and small sized men. The man I fell in love with has a small to normal size penis and it's the love and affection that makes sex with him exciting. We've been married 20 years and I've never been disappointed with his size. For most women, sex is emotional. If you cater to a girl's emotional needs, you will truly satisfy her in the bedroom
you'll find women out there that dont want a man with less than 9"....and you'll find women that dont want more than 6".....just find the right fit, and as most would say, it's more to do with your technique than your size....
I think that like women have to look good and sexy all the time in this day and age. Men have to have a huge penis but as we all know that is'nt the case and so many left feeling they are not normal or lacking in some way be it the woman without a stunning shape guy with a small penis. It's crap really fed to us all by the gutter media , if she don't love you for the right reasons get shut, she ain't worth it and she does love you for the right reasons it will not be a problem. As the good folk above say you can find many ways to thrill and excite without a 12 inch tool lol and besides you could take someones eye with that !!! ..... lol .. goodluck
Size is important. You have to fit right in a vagina, or else she won't get off. But it is incredible how all men (and women apparently) seem to forget that ALL WOMEN ARE ALSO DIFFERENT SIZES IN VAGINA LENGTH. Some women can only fit 2 inches in length, some can fit 12 inches in length, it all varies, just the same as penis size does. AND on top of it all, all women are angled differently as well. And you don't hear anyone advertising "VIAGRA FOR BIGGER VAGINAS". But yeah, size does matter. But having a small dick doesn't matter, because lots of women have small vaginas. You aren't going to be alone in the world no matter what size you are. NO PENIS SIZE IS A PREFERENCE BECAUSE WOMEN ARE NOT THE SAME SIZE EITHER. The media preaches big cocks falsely. It's not like every girl can fit 13 inches. That's a lie. Girls that are less than 13 inches in length would be terrified of fucking that.
Size is not the be all and end all and certainly does not equate to whether your sex will be boring. With very few exceptions, there is always going to be bigger than yours or his....or his. So don't worry about the size.
Thank you, China. Thunderseed had me clambering for the open window there. The thought of all those women having lied to me in the past was too much to bear
Learn to work with your tongue, and learn to love eating pussy, and the last thing she will think about is your penis size.
all women are different sizes in vagina length + the same as how all men are different sizes in penis length = it's stupid to be worried about penis size because if you add that equation together it doesn't matter.
Bottom line, it comes down to the woman you're with. Some are adamant about having a sizable guy, some care but not a ton, some don't care. Date and find one that you can satisfy. There are positions for smaller guys as well
Some women will, yes absolutely. I have been in that situation because I'm only 7" long, but I generally get across the line because my thickness is very unusual. But for sure, some women will start at their own personal minimum size. The other thing that men (and a few women who posted here) think about with size is length, but what of thickness? A thick penis stretches the vagina, giving quite different sensations, although the downside is that long-lasting sex may leave you both feeling sore. The cure for that is not to take too long. In group sex situations I have seen quite a few men a lot longer than me, but the women were more looking forward to me because of my thickness.
