Do you think you're good in bed?

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  1. BelleBunny1109

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    Well, I think I'm at least okay. Lol
    Every once in a while I get in the mood to change things and experiment. I think I've gotten better over the years because I do experiment and find new fun things. Looking back at the first few times I had sex, I can't believe I thought that shit was fun. Lol
     
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    Nobody is great in bed unless they have a partner that communicates in some form or another. If you have a lay like a bump on a log woman in bed good luck being great at anything other than making an excuse to exit the room.
    As we have read in these pages there are many people that no longer have sex at home. Obviously something isn't great and it could very well be the person that no longer is interested in sex.
    Myself I think I sucked when I was young and about my early 30's I finally figured out it wasn't about me blowing a load and then I actually started looking for different techniques and things to try.
    What works for one woman doesn't work on the next and unless you have a long period of time together you probably won't figure it out on your own. Communication from your partner in some form will dictate if you are good in bed or not.
    If I was to reverse this question and asked others how I was I would think they would say he is an enthusiastic, giving man in bed.
    Without enthusiasm from both sides you suck!
     
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    If by good you mean put alot effort into it, yes. :D

    If by good you mean a porn star performace o_O You know they edit those videos right :p
     
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  4. learning1234

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    I am very good at pleasing but have trouble getting it up sometimes
     
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    I think I'm good in bed with my wife. Through our years together we learned not only about different sex techniques but each others erogenous zones, our thoughts and our likes and dislikes. Partnering up with someone else would be exciting bringing back the experimenting with the other person. But not sure I'd be great in bed with that person until I knew them more emotionally and we was more at ease with each other.
     
  6. Sara_sux

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    I know I'm great in bed, on the the floor, in the shower, and I'm awesome in the car.
     
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    Now I'm partial to a shower now and then x
     
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    In my previous relationship I always aimed to make her cum before I did, but being "good" I think is in the eye of the person you are fucking, and I never got any complaints from any of my partners, so I guess you could say I am.
     
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    I haven't even mastered the simple art of sleeping for more than an hour at a time. Anything else I might do in bed is downhill from there.
     
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    Hold on! What aren’t you having sex? You seem like quite a catch.
     
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    Being average in size and being advised to focus more on foreplay and going down on women to make a difference. I now believe that I'm better than I was before.
     
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    Doesn't everybody think they're good in bed?

    Seriously though, I used to be before I got to be an old geezer. In my 20's in my first marriage I could go like 4 times a night, and shoot cum every time. I was a regular horny toad.
    Then in my 40's I could go 4 times a week and soot cum just not so far. I was a sometimes horny toad.
    Now I can go 4 times a month. I can still be a horny toad when the urge finally hits me. LOL

    I've been told, and many times by many partners, that I use my tongue really good and I like doing that, and I've been told my equipment is more than adequate on many occasions by many partners, but you know, don't chicks tell every guy that?
     
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    I had a brief adventure with swingers. I took Polaroid snaps of my young wife in some very provocative poses & we posted them to some magazine. (This was before in Internet!) We got a response from a local middle class young couple & visited their home. What we decided was to screw each other's wives at the same time in their king sized bed. I gave that lady quite a ride. After we had both cum her husband asked her to get some refreshments. She was sitting on the side of the bed in what looked like a trance. She responded to her husband that she would get up when he knees stopped shaking. So I would say, at least from her POV, that I was good in bed with her.

    I usually succeeded in having different gfs orgasm during sex but I liked to start of by getting them off with my mouth & tongue. My saying was that "My partner always cums first'.
     
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    Don't THINK, I KNOW I am.
     
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    I am honestly so going to believe this :)
     
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    Thank you KIND Sir :)