Forget what women or men tell you. Forget about the orgasms you (perhaps just think you) give them. I'm interested in your own analysis of the things you do (or don't) to please a partner, or don't do. And how well you do them. Have you honed your skills somewhat, or are you repeating the same thing in the same way, because (you think) it works? Do you think your partners put as much as you into it? Are they good?