[Ask a Girl] Do you prefer rough or gentle sex?

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    Ladies...just curious do you prefer the rough, loud, furniture shaking sex?

    Or do you prefer the gentle intimate sex more of the time?
     
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    People that have straight hair want curly hair. People that have curly hair want straight hair. I'm kinda like that with rough sex. I don't have it so I want it. Want it bad.
     
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    Is it because your bf/husband doesn't like it?
     
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    I like rough sex, but sometimes gentle is better.
     
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    I think the key here is knowing when to switch from one to the other.
     
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    My virtual boyfriend will play the rough boy with me but my husband just doesn't have it in him and when he tries he just comes off as kinda wimpy. It's as if he's a kicked puppy and not the leader of the pack that takes his bitch when, how, and where he wants.
     
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    I feel your pain. My girlfriend isn't much into the rough wild sex either. I like a woman that gets really physical. Basically I like it where the two of us would have the furniture bouncing around the room lol
     
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    i often need and want rougher sex and even if it starts out gentle, it always takes a turn. i think there's always room for slow, love making too though.
     
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    Yes I seem to always end up at rough sex even after starting out with slow sex. I guess slow sex after a while just gets too boring for me.
     
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    I've got it just the opposite, if hubby does start out a little rough because I've asked him to, he soon fizzles out to the easy going type of sex. I hate having to keep reminding him to be more forceful and it does not come naturally to him.

    Oh well, at least I have a dildo that likes it rough. :)
     
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    mmmm mmmm mmmm what a tragedy! All that sexual energy and wildness being taken out on a dildo! LMAO!!!!! :)
     
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    Sometimes I want to be ravished by my man and I love it just as much as when I climax. But personally I like myself riding on top gently the best which makes for a lengthy sensual climax
     
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    Yeah, no shit! You should see all of the dead soldiers in my toy bag. Half of them don't vibrate anymore and the other half look like a rabid dog has chewed them.
     
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    DAMN! Now I wish you were single and lived close by LOL!
     
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    I am not a Lady...but if I may answer. My answer is a definite...yes. Changing things up keeps it VERY interesting around here. Funny part is...it depends on what lingerie she or I have chosen. Certain outfits set separate moods.
     
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    Yes.
     
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    I don't have a preferrence but like either rough or gentle sex on different occasions.
     
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    Rough sex seems to be a bit tricky to me. First off, different women seem to want different things from rough sex, and men generally don't want to overstep their woman's personal limit. Some women like it to seem a little rough, but they do not want it to hurt. Others like a little pain, and some apparently like a LOT of pain. I would feel terrible if I went too far somehow :ugh
     
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    rough usually leads to a real sharp stinging pain when I wee straight after (The hard and fast penetration really rubs me raw lol - sensitive skin you know).. gentle is all smooth sailing
     
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    Cowboy Lover flat on her back with Hubby wallowing on top, she looks over at the TV, yawns and picks up a fingernail file, shouts come on boy pick it up!:D