Do you masturbate with your SO in bed asleep next to you?

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  1. miss_nastyass

    miss_nastyass New Member

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    Here's the scenario:
    You and your SO get into bed at the end of another day. You've showered and prepared yourself for some loving, at their request. You receive a back rub that just melts away all of the stress and roll over to return the favour....
    And your SO reaches over to turn out the light, kisses you on the cheek, says, "night baby", rolls over and within seconds is snoring.
    You, however, are still wanting sexual satisfaction and decide to take care of things yourself.
    What would you do??
     
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    if it's a small load, i'll just do it by hand..

    but seriously, i think it would be disrespectful to do it with him/her laying right there.
     
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    The story of my sex life lately. And it really pisses me off. I figure if your partner is going to leave you stranded, your entitled to do what you feel necessary, where you like.
     
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    Its a tough one. Id say however much you felt like having some release, its disrespectful if there right beside you.
     
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    How the hell is it "disrespectful"? Your partner dangles the proverbial carrot, then changes their mind and your supposed to just go "oh well"?

    Granted it can happen from time to time. But it can also become a bad habit. There's nothing like being made to feel like your being jerked around by your partner. And I don't mean in a nice way.
     
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    Now this I don't understand at all. Masturbation is between me and well, me. It's not cheating. Unless I'm shaking the bed so much I wake them up it's none of their business. Hell if I wake them up maybe they will finish what they started!! :ugh:ugh
     
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    Buffalo, man, I love your posts! :lol

    I have tried to masturbate while he's sleeping, but I make so much damned noise when I come it's tough. I usually just get up, go lay on the couch, and let 'er rip.
     
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    I've masturbated right next to my partner while she has been asleep, either it doesn't wake her, or she pretends to still be asleep just in case I might ask for assistance:(
     
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    Have definitely come close to satisfying myself while she snoozes next to me, but havent, but that may change in the near future.
     
  10. igor

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    I agree. I have never done it beside my wife. She did it once (I came too soon and she wasn't satisfied so after she thought I was asleep, she "jilled". Many times I was about to after foreplay and she would fall asleep on me, but then she'd usually wake up again and we'd start over.
     
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    I do it a lot. I'm not exactly in the greatest relationship, so we'll often go to bed without even talking. If I've been significantly turned on by anything, I go ahead and do it in bed.
     
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    Me too, i do it. When I wake upp usually. If she'd wanted it she'd have done it night before so in the morning I 'help myself'
     
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    I only do it if she falls asleep and I'm really in the mood.
     
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    I don't think it's disrespectful to masturbate while your SO is in bed next to you. If one is in the mood and the other is not, what are you supposed to do. My husband(as you can see from the above post) has done it before, and a few times I have woken up and helped him finish!!
     
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    I go in the den, strip down and rub it real good. I figure if she goes to sleep, that is as good as a no. One day she will get up and find she is missing out.
     
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    sometimes .whu not.a human needed .there`s no porbleme . :lol
     
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    i have
     
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    If I needed to, I'd have no problem with it. Plus, I think it would be super hot to wake up to my SO doing it. That would be cool. Then I could help him finish.
     
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    Yep, Not my first choice

    I find my wife very attractive, my mind sometimes works overtime dreaming about the ways I could take her… it’s an obsession

    And why should it be? To feel, hold, smell, cress her flesh… Nice, real nice, what I live for.

    But even when I get what I really really want, yeh it’s satisfying in a way, but another part of me screams YYEESSSS THAT IS WHAT I WANT!

    it’s an obsession
     
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    I feel so much better knowing I'm not the only one... lol

    Thankfully, it doesn't happen all the time, the rare nights it does are bad enough! I was really looking forward to gettin some that night, and boy was I pissed off when he turned off the light!! Would have been better if he had woken up and finished what he started...