Do you masturbate or fantasize about people you know without them knowing

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  1. mikehoncho18

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    co-workers, friends, husbands of friends, girlfriends of friends, etc etc?

    I find it fun when you can fantisize a bit about people in our daily lives without them even having the slightest clue that you find them sexy or sexually appealing. I have some women I know for sure would go out with me if I was single same with myself but I wonder if there are some that have never given me the tiniest of clues and yet they feel sexually attractive to me, I for sure have those situations.

    How about you? care to share an experience or two?
     
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    Oh yeah, Im guilty as charged on this one. As an example from daily life, I work with a bunch of women each day and have had a few fantasy thoughts here and there. As for them knowing, I doubt that they would clue in that I might find them attractive because Im very good at flying under the radar. As I've mentioned in another thread, I work in a high profile environment where there is little to no margin for error when it comes to pushing the boundaries of appropriate interaction.

    Perhaps because Im so easy going and easy to talk with, I've also had several of the ladies make some flirty comments and body language toward me, but nothing serious.
     
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    A friends wife, another friends girlfriend, that really cute lady at work who's dumping her husband, someone very recently widowed.... IF I KNEW there'd be no consequences I'd hop right in bed with them. Hell probably start on the kitchen counter since you always hang with friends in the kitchen these days. I'm really lucky my self control is stronger than my libido or I wouldn't have any friends! Ack, I sure hope they've no clue. Well that lady at work may well know, but my friends wives probably just think I'm stand-offish. Sure would like to get them naked & sweaty though. :)
    As for people interested in me - LOL, I would be totally clueless unless they bashed me over the head with a brick & then told me.
     
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    I forgot to address one of the topic questions....regarding masturbation, I have not actually taken any of my co-worker thoughts to the point of masturbation fantasy.:)
     
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    Quite a few women I've worked with over the years.
     
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    Adam Levine!
     
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    whoa @BaileyB does Adam Levine know how lucky he is?
     
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    Oh yess! Co-worker! I've got fantasies of what I'd do with him! Have rubbed my clit to orgasm over him many times
     
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    OH yeah even some people on here...:D
     
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    There are about four ladies in particular on these forums that I find very easy to fantasize about....and I think they know who they are:)
     
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    there is a girl at work with freckles on her back. I see them regularly. I often wank over doing her from behind and cumming on the freckles
     
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    is she hot?
     
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    If you are letting people in real world know you doing this, you're kinda creepy. o_O
     
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    everyone does it
     
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    There's only one person I actually fantasize about and he's very much aware of it lol.
     
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    HEY…You said that was a secret !!!!!!
     
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    I think most people do. I know I've thought about co-workers, friends, friend's boyfriends, and etc.