Do you make out?

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  1. whybother

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    Just like it says. Are long kisses without sex part of your relationship with you SO?
     
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    When I see neighbor, yes.
    Not so much with Shyguy.
     
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    Depends if it's a dating relationship or something else. The former being yes, heavy making out.
     
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    Sort of, we start off just 'making out' with no intention of it leading to sex, but one or both of us usually loses control and it's game on!
     
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    I've been married coming on 23 years now. If I've been sexting with hubby then there is little to no kissing when he gets home if we have a reason we can't jump each other right away. But on an average day we kiss and hold eachother daily. We can be in the kitchen cooking and have a mini make out session with just kissing & necking. So yes after I'm done rambling, my answer is yes.
     
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    It was a very nice Rambling
     
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    With two kids and a 12 hour a day job, my philosophy has become if we have enough time to make out then we have enough time to have sex..and being that growing up that making out was either a precursor to or a somewhat unworthy substitution for sex, I don't devote a lot of effort towards making it happen.
     
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    Short answer; yes and often!
     
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    Not really. The relationship that I'm kind of in just now is long distance, so if we see each other we'll have sex.

    When I was in a long term relationship before, and she lived near by, we didnt have sex every time we saw each other. We'd tend to hold or rub each other rather than kiss. Kissing really doesn't do much for me.
     
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    MMMM I like that word...Rubbing:D
     
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    After being together 34 yrs........HELL yes.
     
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    I wish I could make it last that long
     
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    The trick is to find the right one. Lots of kissing and cuddling along with a healthy dose of sex. Our PDAs drive my daughter up the wall LOL.
     
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    I think I scared the right one off
     
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    Was he bearded? ;)
     
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    yes
     
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    We do. We've been married for five years now and still regularly make out. It doesn't always lead to sex. Sometimes the closeness is just really nice.
     
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    That is exactly it, intimacy and touch so important!
     
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    E and I have been together 24 years and we still have a touchy, feely kind of relationship. Just like Gingerbear, cooking can have multiple make out sessions, hugs, ass smacks. We both really enjoy the intimacy of being close and will just breath each other in when we've been separated for a few hours.
     
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    If you don't do that stuff, you won't last.
     
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