Do you like to be told when your partner's coming?

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  1. k00lice

    k00lice New Member

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    Have you ever wondered that why some women or men tell their partner when they come and the others don't say anything.

    So, Let me ask you this,
    Would you like to be told when your partner's about to come?
     
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    During oral i like to be told so i can prepare myself but otherwise i don't really have a preference.
     
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    I like to be told when my partner's cuming so I can try to get to him and take his load into my mouth or ass. Those are our favorite places for him to make his "deposit."
    He likes me to tell him when I'm cuming so he can try to get off at about the same time.

    SM
     
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    Yes! I usually know when she's getting off, but I'm not a mind reader. If she's going to prolong it or have multiples, she has to let me know so I can time things. That being said, my wife is great about this.
     
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    Yes yes yes!!

    Although I can always tell just before my wife is about to orgasm.......

    When she tells me, "You are about to make me cum....."

    That in itself is often enough to make me blow my load! So sexy!
     
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    Yeah I like to know....


    And I love to scream really loud....

    I AM FUCKING CUMMING......!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!


    Such a verbal woman I be.......lol
     
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    *ROFLMAO*

    I think the scream would be enough without the words.
     
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    hahahahhahaaaa.....

    Could you hear me Joe from over the pond....?

    I bet ye could man.....

    lol
     
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    As we are enjoying some fun on this topic...;)

    The only exception I can think of for NOT wanting to be told is this: :dgrin

    My best mate on his mobile phone telling me !! :eek
     
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    I can tell with my wife without words easily enough but otherwise, yes please tell me!
     
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    For oral I definitely like to know, but I do like the occational surprise!
     
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    Sure , its fine being told, but if she doesnt say anything , we have been together long enough for me to know from her body language shes coming...
     
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    I think pure and plain body language can be just as sexy as words at times.

    Fully tensed muscles, twitching, groans, changed breathing patterns, moans, etc. are such sexy indicators. My partner is rarely verbal, but I think relying on reading body language forces me to tune into his responses more acutely, and be more intuitive. Not bad ropes to learn. :)

    I love all of those sounds and sensations that are non verbal, those things are just SO hot; but I would never complain about a verbal warning either! :p Yum, either way! :p
     
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    Yes all the time :D
     
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    My ultimate pleasure would be to have a man that is as noisy as I....lol

    I always seem to end up with the quiet ones....i find this a tad boring...

    Maybe I put an ad in the local rag...."male screamer wanted....must match my level of screaming"

    haha
     
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    Yeah, I agree with NK! :)
    It is nice to hear, but sometimes you just know! :brow
    ~Bella
     
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    I love to know when my partner is coming........ I have many times come myself at those words.

    I myself, am very vocal. I usually start with oh god, oh god.... and then I moan louder and louder and then bam! the whole head, body and vagina rush. That's when I literally scream the place down hehehehe.
     
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    I know when my SO is cumming by what he does, as NK said she does. I think it is much sexier than any words. But, a verbal response is never bad.
     
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    I tend to be rather quiet, years of having to be quiet when I masturbated has instilled that in me. My partner would have to become rather attuned to my body language to know when I'm coming..but I do get a little vocal when I'm close. I like a little warning when I'm giving the guy head, so I can double my efforts he he.
     
  20. k00lice

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    Sounds like everyone likes their partners to tell you when they are coming.

    I will try scream next time. I tend to listen to girls' scream and it turns me on. I'll see how my girlfriends react on that!

    Oh, by the way, what do you say to your partner when your coming? I usually say, "I'm Coming".