Do you like a surprise?

Discussion in 'Sexual Foreplay and Techniques' started by Shafe, Jul 19, 2010.

  1. Shafe

    Shafe New Member

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    Let me start by saying I love my girlfriend so much, so very very much (I actually plan on proposing once we're more financially stable) but she does not like to give head very often, and when she does it isn't really that great. Then the other day after I had eaten her out she was giving me a nice footrub, she told me to close my eyes and relax, and I wasn't expecting anything other than a relaxing massage. To my surprise I begin to feel the warmth of her mouth around my cock! :drool Now she must've been reading some type of technique on the internet or watched some good BJ porn because this was one of the best feelings I've ever, ever experienced. I think it was due in part to the fact that it was a complete surprise!

    So my question is, when your lover pleasures you, do you like time to get ready and horny, or do you like it to be totally out of the blue (or any variation in between)?
     
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    Surprises are good, and it can be big or little ones.
     
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    Variety is the spice of life. Both the planned and surprises, when well mixed, can keep the sexual encounters in a relationship very exciting.
     
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    Hi Shafe, you are a lucky man.
    She loves you so much that she worked on the issue that she was previously uncomfortable with and gave you a surprising good time.
    I am willing to bet that your surprised reaction was her best reward and suspect that now there will be many happy returns.
    Bravo, another hang up hits the dust!
     
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    I'm going to speak for my guy here and I'm sure he'll agree with me. He LOVES when I wake him up with a blow job.
    I love doing that to him too. He'll be fast asleep, snoring away and I'll see that tent his erection is making under the blanket. I'll carefully move the blanket and slowly make my way down his body and slide him down my throat. He'll snore for another moment or two before I get going and then it's an instant 'whawhoaohhhh.." and that is my favorite sound to hear.

    He generally gets way more into it when it's a surprise, and when it's random and not something I'm just doing in the motions, I get way more into it too.

    Surprises are always good when it comes to oral. :p