Do you keep track of how many times you've ever had sex in your life time?

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  1. Sexual Person

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    And all of the partners you did it with, how old you were when you first started out and about your first experience? Wanna share?

    I'm not a virgin, but I haven't had sex that many times, probably because I'm really shy, find it hard to bond and I usually wait until I'm really in love first.
     
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    Just a second let me go find those spreadsheets...

    But seriously, I don't keep track of how many times I've had sex in my life.
    Who I've had sex with? That's easy because the list is really short - doesn't take much tracking.
    As for my first experience? Let's just call it a trainwreck and leave it at that. :p

    Also:
    When you ask about people's first experience - what do you define as someone's first. Do you mean when did they "lose their virginity"? If so, when is it that someone has lost their virginity?
    First masturbation with someone other than themselves?
    First oral sex?
    First experience with penetration?
     
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    I didn't "get started" until I was 21... then, I couldn't stop. Lol

    I've been married to my "3rd" partner for 28 yrs...

    ...then, there's the rest of the story...
     
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    Oh good...Then I guess maybe I'm not the only who had the shittiest first time..
     
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    Not enough !
     
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    Huh?
     
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    That's great...At least you found your happy ending :)
     
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    It wasn't the shittiest... but it was bad. Made worse because at the time I was convinced I was being such a stud - turns out I was being a total dud.

    And I think most people's first time is rarely a very good time.
     
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    It's good to know that some people can relate though, because my first time was so bad that I can't even stop thinking about it and it's been nearly a year.
     
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    My first "time" was awkward, but...the SECOND TIME (during the same session) felt WAAAAAAAAYYYYYYYYY BETTER!!! And, these nuts busted a serious load.
     
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    Yes, indeed, I can relate. And while you'll likely never forget it - the more better experiences you have the less you will be preoccupied with that one. :)
     
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    Oh my first felt great... to me... only me. That's what made it bad.

    Fortunately communication, patience, and practice practice practice made things improve fairly quickly. :cool:
     
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    My first time was AWFUL. Made a complete cats breakfast of the whole business and wanted o go and hide afterwards.
    I had 3 sons so I must have done something right but since then --- nothing !!
     
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    How many times? I've no idea. Partners well 9 IIRC.
     
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    I know how many sexual partners but I certainly haven't keep count of how many times I've had sex.
    Of course some encounters gave been particularly memorable & I remember those in detail
     
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    Mmm. Start a Miss Scarlett Detail thread! :)
     
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    What a great idea !!
     
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    Maybe could be persuaded to consider this
     
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    I'll do a post when I can remember all of their names :)
     
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    I'll help you.... Right hand and left hand!


    Sorry :) had to though.