Do you have a side of the bed?

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  1. whybother

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    For people wit SO's: Are you always on the same side in bed. I always sleep on the right side of the bed. It goes back to when our kids were little and my wife wanted to be closer to the bedroom door. No reason for that anymore, but we are so used to it that we don't ever change. I noticed last night and this morning though that it has an impact on sex. We are both right handed so when we face each other on our sides, my right hand is free but hers is restricted. There's nothing stopping us from rolling over, but does impact the positions that we tend to use. Just wondering if this is a rut that we are in.
     
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    Yep...right side laying on it...left side looking at it from the foot of the bed. Just happened and stayed that way
     
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    The left side is mine, not sure why. The left side is where I slept for as long as I can remember, well before dating.
     
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    Yes the middle where every girl should be :D
     
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    Same for me. I now can't sleep on the other side of the bed. I can be on any side for sex but can only sleep on one side
     
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    On the right. Just cause I had a shoulder issue, I sleep on my stomach or side and didn't want to me always facing the husband.
     
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    I prefer the top side
     
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    Not under the bed then??? :)
     
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    Bottom side isn't comfortable for anything including sleeping or.....
     
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    I've always slept on the side closest to the wall. As a kid and teen I had a nasty habit of rolling off the bed at night so the wall allowed me to just curl up against it. Now with our bed being in the center of the room I tend to sleep with my husband on my left side.
     
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    It looks a little something like this...

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    I quite like this - deny the accuracy of it though

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    I'll will just lay on top of you :)
     
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    I tend to sleep closest to the door.
     
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    Standing at the foot of the bed, looking to the head of it, I sleep on the right. Actually laying in it, I sleep on the left. I have always been this way....no matter who im with. And no, I cannot bring myself to sleep on the opposite side. I might stretch out a bit more if he gets up to pee but thats about it
     
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    My dogs dictate what part of the bed I get!!
     
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    When we first got married she had to sleep nearest the bathroom door for some reason and the arrangement stuck. She is on my left and we both can't sleep if that changes.
     
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    Thank you. Fun post.
     
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    I would go so far as to describe it as refreshingly monosyllabic. :p

    But I believe you meant simply: *poke, poke* :rolleyes:
     
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