Do you ever get hit on?

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  1. CuriousGeoff

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    So, i was just wondering. When I was in my 20s, I was pretty active on the dating scene and had my share of girls hitting on me or telling their friends to tell me they were interested in me and all was good. However, I've been married for 18 years now, and ever since we got married no one has ever hit on me. Not once. Although there is the possibility that some flirting took place that I didn't notice because I'm an idiot when it comes to that.

    I'm just wondering if anybody else has experienced the same thing. I wouldn't follow up with anything or cheat, but it would be a huge ego boost to know that someone other than my wife still found me attractive.

    So, what has your experience been?
     
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    My whole life :D

    However, I am the terrible on picking up in it:oops::oops::oops:

    I typically figure it out about a week or so after.:rolleyes::D
     
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    Yes I get hit on quite often in my business. Sometimes the wives do it in front of their husbands. :D Yeah since im older now it does keep my ego pumped when women 10 or 15 years younger hit on me. Of course im kind of a flirt anyways. :D
     
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    I'll have to do a self check and see if I'm giving off some weird signal or something. Or maybe I'm just that clueless.
     
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    Nope Never!:D
     
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    Nope.
     
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    Cmon!
     
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    Yes, by ladies in certain sections of Manhattan, on the West Side, late in the evening. They're all so friendly, they even ask if I want a date!

    Mr. B
     
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    Only once in the last decade or so, at least in a very obvious and forward way, discounted by the fact that she was pretty bombed lol. Also got hit on by a gay man about 20 years ago in a bar in Athens, Ga.
     
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    Nah, I wear my invisibility cloak every time I go out in public.
     
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    I wouldn't mind getting hit on by a gay guy, at least it's something.
     
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    I get hit on, but a lot less than when I was younger. It decreases with the passing years.

    It has a lot to do with age, but also with the way I'm dressed. When I wear more tight fitting clothes, less clothes (like swimming suit), or no clothes, I'm hit a lot. When I wear the frumpy clothes I work in, I'm hit less, or not at all. If there's one piece that's tight fitting, mainly pants, I'm hit. If it's all frumpy, no hits.

    It also depends on what I'm doing. When I'm dancing, I'm a magnet for men of all ages and it's when I get guys in their early twenties hitting on me even more than on the younger women around. I even know what moves bring the most men and have tested it on tens of occasions.

    It has also to do with my weight. I've never been obese and my weight doesn't vary much. But when I'm even 5 pounds heavier, I'm hit less than when I'm lighter.

    I haven't tested it as thoroughly as I've tested the other factors. It could be a conjoint effect, because I may, or may not be wearing more frumpy clothing when I'm heavier. For comfort. I did notice, though, that when the other women around are slimmer, or younger, I'll get attention when the men have been rejected by the younger/slimmer women, not before.

    Having said that, I've noticed a trend where, sometimes, younger adult men seek me before younger women. I think it's just because they think I'd be so happy/grateful to fuck a younger man, I'd be willing to do with them the kind of sex they couldn't get younger women agree with. This gets confirmed when we engage in conversation. They don't admit to it, but, by profession, I'm very good at getting information from people without them even realizing it.

    It all changes when the men realize I may be willing to have sex. All other women will be then ignored. Easy sex is still the main magnet, above age and figure.

    Age is also less important than figure. When the younger women are heavier, they try first me, before turning to them. There are slight variations linked to hair color. If the heavier woman isn't too heavy and she's blond, she'll be hit on first.

    Money is also an important factor. When I travel to poor countries, I'm hit to the level it's very annoying and I'm avoiding these travels, now. One example is having men literally running beside my taxi in traffic and telling me through the window that they're in love with me and want to marry me. Men I've never seen before. This has happened even when I was traveling with my man, in his presence.
     
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    Yes!! :)
    I think it has alot to do with your confidence & how one is put together. Alot what sensless said. Except I've never been "slim" lol ... but I do workout & take care of myself & wear clothes that flatter my body type... don't get me wrong I like my comfy clothes too ... for those lazzy days :D
     
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    Swear. I get checked out, stares, whatever...but that's not getting hit on. A lot of it has to do with whether a guy thinks you seem available to hit on. And I'm sure I come off as unavailable! Plus, I'm rarely hanging out in bars or places that it's typically the acceptable thing to do.
     
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    I should add it's flattering to get hit on.. especially as one ages ;)
     
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    There at also a lot of younger men that are attracted to older women. Everybody loves a milf. I don't think is has as much to do with the fact that you may be easier, but that you are experienced enough to know what your doing. All of us older guys have the fantasy of being with a younger woman, but in reality it probably wouldn't be that good since they ate so immature and inexperienced.
     
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    I wish... But the only time I socialise with women my age is at my child's school and they gossip too much to flirt in public Hehe. Some are pretty damned hot too!
     
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    :D:p
     
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    I will admit I like to check out the moms at my kids school.
     
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    I used to all the time in the band. Still occasionally. Makes you feel good even if you know nothing is going to happen.