do you ever feel.....

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  1. killjoy

    killjoy New Member

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    do you ever feel like you put more into your relationship than your partner does? as in, do you try your hardest to make them happy, only to have them not try very hard at all?
    I'm starting to feel like this with my current S.O......
     
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    i hope this makes sense

    Yeah,I felt that way for awhile. We had to break up for him to see what had been happening. Communication. Seriouslly, if you haven't already tell them whats going on and how you see the relationship. If you two break up and your S.O wants the relationship to work~ they have to see what its like when your gone. And one of two good things could happen: 1) your present S.O will see what they are missing confront it and change (give in whats given out). 2) you'll me someone who is appreciative of what you have to offer and you'll get the same in return. But if your not happy~ do something about it.
     
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    hey, thanks for the reply, yea, i guess that's probably an option im going to have to take :/
     
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    Yeah it had to hurt bad enough before I could let him go. Its not woth it when loving him is hurting me.