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  1. BlasphemousGirl

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    Like your Significant Other only expresses his/her personality to others online, and not you? Like he/she is not themself.

    Ive thought this sometimes in all seriousness.. He doesnt laugh, or smile. Nor does he show affection to me as much anymore.Hes become quote dull (personality wise). But I see him laughing and smiling and all giddy all hours of the day when hes interacting with his online~'Social-Life'. Im kind of jealous.

    His personality is fizzling.To me a strong personality is the biggest turn on. He only smiles and laughs and show affection when he wants to get laid. I'm so over it. He wonders why his intimacy numbers are dropping. I dont want to feel like im just "a sexual vent/Item" to his online fantasies.

    /Rant. Thanks for listening.

    Any advice or opinions would be appreciated!
     
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    have you discussed it with him?
     
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    Ive said things. Many times. Ive pointed things out. Ive been blunt. Hes in denial...But i see it. Its plain as day. His personality has become as dull as a 50 lb boulder.

    He like lives in a virtual world( if you will.)
     
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    i'd say cut his internet....but that would deprive us of your company lol
     
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    The wonderful world of technology. I couldn't live without it, sadly. lol Ive threatened that actually--turning the internet off. ( how sad is that ) He knows i wouldn't though.


    :ugh
     
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    But he needs to see the truth. Not to put it on you, so please don't take it that way, have you tried to coax him away and show him what he's missing out on when he's not with you?
     
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    What do you mean by coax him away?
     
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    Or what about joining that site he is on under a different name and flirting with him. Just an idea I have never tried it myself.
     
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    lure and lead him away from his online world, though yeah i'm being kinda vague lol
     
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    You mean like a little secret virtual fantasy/Rp kind of thing?:lol
     
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    Great idea :D
     
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    Yep! :D Hey.... you never know til you try it. I actually think it would be kind of hot and steamy.
     
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    Thank you!:p
     
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    except...id have to pretend to know and love cars!!! lol
     
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    I love cars and trucks. Let me talk to him. :D I'll make him want you more then me.

    Ok...maybe not.
     
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    that's a requirement to talk to him onlnie?
     
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    Well, you could find out if he's prone to cheating this way. If he flirts with you, who else is he flirting with.

    I'm actually tamer on line than I am in person, my sarcasm is hard to express on the web.
     
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    You don't have to lose the technology altogether; you can take a break from it to reconnect with him. Can the two of you go away for a weekend without any distractions and just talk things out?
     
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    I'm kind of interested to know what site he goes to where he talks about cars? If you don't want to share here you can PM me. Only if you want too. I am a member of a Truck,fitness and sports forum.
     
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    :lol LOL!