Do you clench your pelvic muscles when masturbating?

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  1. Andrew Williams

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    As the title as: Do you clench your pelvic muscles when masturbating? Why or why not?
     
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    No, not in sex, not in masturbation. I relax my muscle as completely as I can, wait for the high point and then release, without any muscle pressure.
     
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    I believe I do, not sure why o_O
     
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    I do. It allows me to cum quicker and gives slightly more please
     
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    Yes of course!
    It heightens the sensation of fullness and desire to ejaculate :)
     
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    I do. lt just happens, because it feels good.
     
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    A long time ago I would tense the muscles down there in order to stave off cumming, which would make my orgasm last a bit longer. However, up to this day, I can't keep myself from doing it (at least when I jerk off). I really have no idea why.
     
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    I clench but it's involuntary.
     
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    I clench but not through choice
     
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    I agree with all of the lassies above. I do automatically - it just happens. A woman's orgasm obviously comes from a different place, surrounded by different muscles. That's why it's so difficult (but not impossible!) for us to have an orgasm standing up (see previous thread on that topic, as there are just too many things that are clenching during a female orgasm.
     
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    Usually yes. Sometimes I try not to because it makes the build up a completely different kind of pleasure. But during orgasm its involuntary of course.
     
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    I will go again then (pun); I clench trying to hold back my ejaculation which when that wave comes in is like trying to hold back the tide but just trying intensifies immensely the sensations.
    Another perhaps involuntary action is continuous thrusting during and soon after ejaculating.
    I understand that most guys do as I and will keep going thrusting as deeply and for as long as possible yet a few will totally relax and barely move.
    Ladies what do your experiences tell about that?
     
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    When you're masturbating what exactly are you "thrusting" into?
     
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    I am a dude--I do clench my PC muscles to stop ejaculating, so i can masturbate or have sex longer--I usually edge 4-5 times like this before i cum--when I cum i tense up my PC and legs and pelvis and thrust forward hard as I shoot cum...feels so good, turns me on just typing this!
     
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    How does clenching help you have sex for longer?
     
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    I only do during sex. It doesn't do anything for me when I'm by myself.
     
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    It is part of squeezing my PC muscles--I exercise and strengthen them, and squeezing them stops my cum before i ejaculate it--part of tantra, along with deep belly breathing and sound...