Do women think about a guy's size on the first date?

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  1. bt1257

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    Just wondering how much women think about how big a guy is when they first meet them.
     
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    When they first meet? or when they first get busy?

    Initial contact I look at it, think about it and work it. But it's the man himself that will keep me interested.
     
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    I'm talking about the first date, not the first time being intimate.
     
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    Oh so you mean how big a guy is as a whole? not the size of whats in his pants?

    Well I prefer my fella to be tall, big, strong and cuddly. Call me shallow I don't know. So I guess I think about it.

    If it's the latter.. then I have a default size in my head if my mind is wandering off thinking about sex...

    PS. If I am not making any sense *ignore my post * lol
     
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    it's hard to think about.
     
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    No. That's the last thing I ever thought about on the first date.
     
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    No, I've never thought about how big a guys cock is on the first date, mainly for a couple reasons.

    I've generally asked how big their cocks are prior.

    If I haven't asked, then the only thing I'm thinking about on the first date is how nervous I was.
     
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    ok mitt, i know this is a bit old... but i'm laughing here,..trying to picture how that conversation would have went down....im assuming youre not serious?....:lol
     
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    In my strolls through dating sites had one request that I provide a pic of my stuff next to a Dish Network remote. That was a tad weird as we hadn't even gotten to the point of sharing first names. I passed on sending the pic btw.

    First dates are a lot like job interviews and used car shopping. Not finding one that's issue free, as they don't exist, its finding one that has issues you can live with. Also preferably low miles and body not all banged up from previous driver.
     
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    Let's imagine. Phone rings...... 'Hi, Mitt, this is Constantine the local business tycoon. I wonder if you would like to come out for a drink with me'. Mitt, 'Sorry, what size did you say your dick was?'

    I like your style, Mitt. Get the nasty stuff out of the way so that you can concentrate on the food, drink, theatre, etc! :lol
     
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    its too bad there is know way to know pussy size. Me: "so how big is your gash babe? Her: oh, bout 6 by 12. Me::ugh
     
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    Like Somhairle I'm trying to picture this so will go along the same route as he did.


    *phone rings*

    MITT "Hello"

    TYCOON "Hi Mitt. It's Richard Rich here. Look I might be loaded but 'm a down to earth guy and really like you. Fancy coming out for a meal some time?"

    MITT " Oh, I'm not too sure. I mean you're kind of cute and that but I get really nervous on dates"

    TYCOON "Don't worry. No pressure, don't think of it as a date, just treat it like 2 friends having a meal and a chat. If things go well we can do it again."

    MITT "OK, that sounds fine, but not a date in the true context?"

    TYCOON "If it helps you relax and be the person I like then sure, not a date."

    MITT "OK then, but I'll proibably still be a bit nervous"

    TYCOON "How about I pick you up Friday at 7.30? And please don't worry, just be yourself."

    MITT "Friday's good for me"

    TYCOON "See you Friday then"

    MITT "Yeah, see you Friday and how big's your cock"

    *click, phone line goes dead*
     
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    Why worry?? There's far more women out there who are looking for a free ride than there are women who are finding one. The little guys with the big cranks can't possibly screw them all and definitely won't be willing to pay the tab, so just hit the road and enjoy yourself. If they are looking for more, tell them they got all they would ever get from you.
    :D
     
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    All I'm saying is this if mitt asked how big mine was before I got to meet her..id lie just to meet her :)
     
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    Lol guys you're totally taking this out of context.

    I'm a very sexual person by nature and somewhere in the line of conversations how big a guys cock comes up. For example:

    Q: So yeah how many people have you slept with?
    A: Oh just a few. 2 or 3 maybe.

    Q: 2 or 3 maybe?
    A: Yeah, the first guy was so shitty I don't really count him lol.

    Q: Shitty? What was his dick too small?
    A: No, god no. It was actually too big.

    Q: What do you consider big?
    A: 8 or over. 5 to 7 is like...perfect.

    Q:Oh..cool. Very cool.
    A: Why, how big are you?


    Seeeeeeeee :p

    Gearhead, no need to lie. I've already seen it ;)
     
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    lot's of things go through my mind when we first meet, size isn't very high on the list.
     
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    If the date is going well, yes.
    If the date is crappy and I don't like him, no.
     
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    She internally thinks the guy has big experience and so strong stamina so high.
     
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