Just curious as I've been having a little discussion about it this morning. Would your partner view just being on this site as cheating? Does he/she feel like it's the same as having an ad to meet other people online? Do some people feel like just discussing sex with a bunch of strangers is cheating? My opinion is that if people cross a certain line and it stops being a "discussion" and starts being "sexual" (more like having cybersex) it's dancing on the line of cheating. What do you all think?