I have found over the years of my marriage that my wife was well less than truthful about her sexual past. You see I asked when we were dating since like most back then you didn't want to marry someone that had slept with your friends, close or otherwise. She assured me that she hadn't slept with anyone I know. Well how could that be since she didn't know everyone I know. She claime three guys, the one who got her virginity and he she said was only once. He first real boyfriend who she cohabatated with for a year. And the guy she slept with after the prior guy broke her heart. Then there was me. Then I find out during a conversation among her and he friends that she split with the guy she lived with two years before we even met, the one right after was a month long fling she had said. So later that evening I ask her, "so you didn't have sex for 23 months when you were 21-22 years old?" She looked puzzled and I recapped what she and her old friends had been talking about, it wasn't boyfriends but where she was living and when she moved back to her parents house. It all clicked suddenly and she shut down and wouldn't talk. Later I confront her at home about a certain person I knew she went out with some months before we met. I knew the guy and she knew I knew him from the start. She had told me they only went out twice. Then I come to find out by tricking her best friend into spilling the beans on him. They we're together several months. Maybe I'm wrong for backing her into a corner but I was totally upfront with her about my past and she clearly lied and lied. Now that it's out I have found she had about 12 different guys by the time she was 22 and she was a virgin till almost 20. Am I wrong to have made her fess up, she was very upset and made me out to be the bad guy here.