Do men really like this?

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  1. mayim

    mayim New Member

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    Hi,
    One night I was with a male friend who I dated for a few months. One thing led to another and we started kissing. However, before we got too into it we discussed some of the things that led to our break up, and realized the issues were still unresolved. One minute he is telling me that he understood if I did not want to do anything else physical with him, the next minute he is going down on me and did not want me to do anything for him in return. He was never this "giving" when we were together, and, no offense to the men, I usually hear about women giving and not receiving. Do men actually like going down just because?
     
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    HELL YES!!!!!

    Would rather be be the pleaser here.......But never pass up anything more.

    I love the taste of a woman!
     
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    I agree. I know I love it and I am pretty sure I can speak for most guys. There is just something about it that cannot really be explained.
     
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    It depends on the woman. I enjoy doing that for my current girlfriend...but some of the others, I didn't enjoy it.
     
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    Hell fucking yeah! I like the taste and seeing a girl squirm in pleasure is absolutely delightful.
     
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    I can't help but ask, what was it about the previous (non-enjoyable) girlfriends that made it unenjoyable for you?
    I'm just curious :)

    I've gotta say, you men are all something else, enjoying going down on your women so much... :brow Wow... :bow
     
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    That is a good question-what was the difference? When my ex and I were together he did not do it that often. That night was the most "giving" he had ever been and we've been broken up for almost a year -it was a major improvement!:brow
     
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    I would like to be on the receiving end more often than I am but it seems my boyfriend is either one of those men who just doesn't like doing it or perhaps he just doesn't like doing it with me...
     
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    I guess what I didn't like was: the smell, the taste and her not appreciating what I was doing.

    Some women taste and smell much better than others. Sorry, it's gross, but true.
     
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    That's interesting... If there are some that 'taste good' one would assume there could be some that 'taste bad'. I always wondered if this was the case but never had the guts to ask a man that at random.. lol ;)
    I love kissing my man after he goes down on me, and I can see where the taste is a turnon for you guys....
    However, I can sure as heck see why it would be a turn off if it tasted funky, too! :eek

    And oral is one of those, 'giving of oneself' things, that has to be appreciated by the recipient to be enjoyable for the giver. Otherwise why bother?, right. Understandable.

    Cheers, smallpackage :toast
    May the lass's in your bed be tasty and appreciative! ;) lol
     
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    Well said!
     
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    I love giving oral. I love trying to please my wife. I think it all got started with me giving her oral hoping to get some in return. That sure as hell backfired.
     
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    I am so giving this as a toast at a friend's wedding.
     
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    without a doubt -- i am very oral and using my tongue on a girl is a major turn on - so hot getting a girl completely satisfied with your mouth
     
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    Absolutely yes. To tell the truth I get more pleasure from giving than from recieving. I would like to add that my theory to why men like to watch lesbian vids is because we get so much pleasure from seeing women get off. 2 women, double dose of pleasure. Just a theory.

    Pete
     
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    Wow, that is an interesting theory. That never crossed my mind before, but sure makes some sense. Thanks for sharing. :)
     
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    I am not quite that generous, I love going down on a woman and feeling her arousal building and then getting her all the way, it's one of the greatest parts of sex. But then, when she's satisified and I am feeling joyous, I am also waiting for and wanting my share. Because the next part is also one of the greatest parts of sex too!

    By the way, the Lesbian porn thing is true, it is very exciting to watch shared pleasure. This type of thing also overlaps the FFM threesome in another thread, the hottest part of this type of activity is getting two women off, or being part of two women getting each other off (ah, memories!).
     
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    I knew one guy that I used to mess around with that would love to give head and would get off on that. I enjoyed it because he really wanted to please me.
     
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    OOOOPS I meant "oral sex" not head. LOL You know where my mind is!