Hi, One night I was with a male friend who I dated for a few months. One thing led to another and we started kissing. However, before we got too into it we discussed some of the things that led to our break up, and realized the issues were still unresolved. One minute he is telling me that he understood if I did not want to do anything else physical with him, the next minute he is going down on me and did not want me to do anything for him in return. He was never this "giving" when we were together, and, no offense to the men, I usually hear about women giving and not receiving. Do men actually like going down just because?