Hypothetical: I'm on my stomach with my head between your legs. My nose is just above your clit. I have been pleasuring you for over ten minutes with my tongue, lips and teeth. I have not once touched your clit or the hood over same. You have been building for a toe-curling orgasm from the beginning. I am impotent. Question: Do you want me to go for the clit hard? Gently? Continue with what I'm doing? Stick three fingers in the vag, and go for the clit? Stick my thumb in your vagina, thumb in your ass, and go for the gusto on your sweet spot? Something else? This is a serious question. I have a woman who will not talk while having sex.