In November i broke up with my girl friend of almost 2 years, we have remained friends and only just recently stopped hanging out more than once a week. It was a hard split because we both still love each other very much so it was extremly hard to actually stop acting like we were together. In the last two weeks she has been hanging out with a new guy and she just yesterday told me she likes him. It shook me and surprised me, because to me it seems so soon, she told me at first he was just a friend. Last week she told me she hung out with some friends and ended up spending the night over his house wathcing movies, she said nothing happened and I believed her because i couldnt even think that she could even be interested in someone else at the time, i really thought she just was meeting new people through old ones i dont know why, i just guess i thought she felt the same way i did and wasnt even thinking about anyone else let alone another relationship. But now i come to find out that she likes him and has been hanging out with him late at night. my question is, do i have to right to ask her if she has become intimate with him? I know im not her man anymore and its none of my business, but we were extremly close, we went through a lot together, as some of you may recall; and i still consider her my best friend, and she says the same, although now, i really am doubting a lot she tells me, not because she wants to decieve me, but because she doesnt want to hurt me. we even had a mini intervention about her depression and fears about now being a graduate with her parents on new years day. I want to know because i know i need to move on, and if she has already taken the first steps, it will be a strong encouragement for me too.