Do I have a problem?

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  1. Wade

    Wade New Member

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    Hey, I just turned 18 and I'm still a virgin but that's not the point.
    Well, usually when I mastrubate it doesn't last long and I'm done in less than 3 minutes. Should I be concerned about that or is it going to last longer once I actually start having sex?
    I usually watch some porn movies when I mastrubate so I finish real quickly.
    I'm also not so sure about my penis size because it doesn't seem long.
    Should I be concerned about all this? Thanks.
     
  2. heelfetish

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    No, you don't have a problem. :)

    Actually, there is a connection between cumming fast during masturbation and during sex. You are essentially coaching yourself to cum quickly. Don't let it worry you, but a good practice would be to try to delay your orgasm for as long as possible during masturbation.

    As for penis size, the average length is about 5.5". Anywhere from 5"-7" is very common. While being huge can turn some people on, most agree that it's not the size that matters, but what you do with that you have.

    Foreplay is of utmost importance. Rather than worry about being too small or how long you'll last (leading to performance anxiety), concentrate on pleasing her before intercourse. Be a selfless lover... your own pleasure will be awarded in the process.

    Good luck!
     
  3. pirouette

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    Heelfetish is right ! From my experiences with my husband I can say that he lasts longer when we have sex more often. If I am sick, out of town, or generally unavailable sexually, he tends to cum faster when we finally have sex again. It doesn't bother me at all. Probably because I know there will be another round-or two!
     
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    Wade: You have no problem at all.
     
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    Like posted above do this:

    EVERY time you masterbate go until the point of no return and stop and catch your breath. Start off slow and stop again when you are about to cum. do this ten times. once you get good you can lower the number. just remember most women need lube after 30 minutes ;).
     
  6. heelfetish

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    Well said. :)
     
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