[Ask a Guy] Do guys like girls who like girls

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  1. prettygirl

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    I am well bi-curious, i guess. i would'nt say im full blown bisexual, i dont date girls i just fool around with them sometimes:) so i was wondering would it turn you on if your girl-friend said she was bi? would it make you upset, or jelous.. how would you feel?

    Hope I worded this right, thanks in advance.

    - Brooke.
     
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    I love dating Bi girls personally, i think it's a lot easier on things when i can notice a cute girl and mention it to my partner rather then having to hide my knowledge that other attractive women exist.

    But, of course i keep it a 2 way street, i'm not bi myself but i can comment on if i think a guy my girlfriends like is hot or not without having to make it akward.
     
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    I would just love to be with a bi or bi curious girl and her friend even if that friend was strictly gay.
    It must be the voyeuristic streak but the idea of seeing them together rocks my boat.
    That said, I don't go looking for W on W porn.
     
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    I think a girl fooling around with another girl is totally hot.

    BD
     
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    I had a girlfriend who had previously fooled around with a girl. She said they both went down on each other. I thought it was HOT!
     
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    Hmm let me think about this.... Fuck yessssss. Something about seeing two girls kissing each other with tongue that drives me crazy.
     
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    I think you'll find that the answer to this question is a resounding yes. It's a fundamental law of the universe that all red-blooded heterosexual men absolutely love to see two (or more) hot bi-sexual chicks getting it on. It's all part of the popular fantasy of joining in and teaching them a thing or two.

    However, I'm not sure if this law extends to lesbians. They might not enjoy watching two (or more) hairy butch lesbians getting it on.
     
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    I have actually talked about this on here before. For me, this is a definite yes. However, there is a bit of jealousy for me here. My fiance' is almost definitely bi-curious. She has never fooled around with a girl before but she has told me she would try it. I tried to set something up for us but she resisted saying she could never let me touch another girl. I told her I would just watch but for some reason she resisted that as well. Oh well maybe one day when our relationship is stronger.
    But your answer from me is YES YES YES!
     
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    I certainly would not like to see two hairy whatevers lesies doing it but then as a committed heterosexual with as you rightly indicated us RBH men for some unfathomable reason (even to me) would love to see bi-sexual chicks getting it on.
    Yep all part of "the fantasy" but not real sure about the central core matter here.
    Teaching us a thing or two might be secondary to something much more fundamental in our psyche but again cannot put my finger on it, yet it is a hugely arousing phenomena.
    WTF, but would die or walk on hot coals for those clear blue eyes even if they are not your own.
     
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    Don't just say that your bi- just so you can turn on a friend or lover/SO- You either are interested or not..and sexual attraction can be fluid as you learn more about yourself and the social and cultural environments that you are in.
     
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    Thanks guys!

    The only reason ive brought it up because i have dated guys who both do, and do not like it.
    and its hard when they dont really tell you reasons why they do.

    I have never said, oh im bi just to put a smile on a guys face, it's just something i enjoy.

    Thanks again:)
     
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    Teaching, hell! I'd be there to learn.:p
     
  13. Fliteskates

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    I think it is because women generally are more sensuous... so seeing two beautiful women kiss is a big turn on...

    I find I don't get turned on by watching another guy kiss a girl, but 2 girls kissing does it for me.

    I joke with my g/f all the time when she stays over at a girl friend's house to "take pictures of the action" for me. She always tells me I'm dreaming, but whatever lol.

    So I guess it may not bother me much if she was with another woman... but I would have to have it happen to know for sure.
     
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    When I was about 14-15 my best friend and I were watching a lesbian porn scene. It was the first time I had ever seen something like that, and I got so turned on I was afraid to move, lest I cum in my pants.

    I think men like to see women doing it together because a) well, we love women, and this way, it's more of the good stuff! b) We can watch them having sex without those annoying men in the way c) we like the thought of having a woman with whom we can speak openly about how hot other women are.

    My wife sometimes tells me when she spots a hot woman, but apart from that, she is really not into any girl-girl stuff :(
     
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    I had a vary long-term fuck-buddy relationship with a woman who liked women, and it was fun to talk about some of her exploits. It was even funnier when we went out together and she would chat up the waitresses and so on. We had a threesome once with her and one of her friends, which was the most fun of all.

    In this case where the relationship was open and jealousy didn't enter into it, it worked really well. In a more normal relationship, bisexuality could be a problem for some men, especially when, in the majority of cases it won't lead to threesomes like mine. Instead you know she's sleeping with and being rurned on by someone else. Even in my case I felt pinches of jealousy, because I ended up breaking the rules and falling in love with her.
     
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    Just like everyone else I get so turned on by the idea. I had a really close friend who had a serious relationship with a bisexual girl. After about 2 years she ended up leaving him for a woman. The fact that she left him for a woman destroyed him even though he knew she was bisexual.
     
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    I personally like it... a lot. My girlfriend is bi-curious but has never really lived any experiences with a girl... except this one time at band camp (lol), it was a party actually and she was pretty drunk. She only french kissed the girl. That other girl also had a boyfriend... but her boyfriend went ballistic though. I personally was turned on!
    In other words, I was aroused by it and totally fine but the other guy wasn't really happy about it, since he felt betrayed... even if it was another girl.
     
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    I personally would love the idea of the girl i like also likeing girls if anything it would be a total turn-on.
     
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    It's because women are gentle and yielding. That's a turn on!
     
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    OMG!!! Puss, the visual picture is killing me! :lol

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