I think it depends, for me, I love it when my man masturbates, especially if I'm with him, I like to tease and not let him touch me but touch him and drive him crazy. Also, my man likes to text me afterwards or call me when he's finishing and let me listen to him saying my name and orgasming. So yes very sexy.
OK, ladies, in the interests of the community, I am prepared to sacrifice myself. Don't all rush at once. You know the PM address. :lol