I’ve been with my wife for 13 years and i feel like i kid her and tell her were still on our first date. Which is true because the first night she came over we had a blizzard so she had to stay. Since then we have not spent one night apart. So were still on our first date... Anyway she loves oral and I just always want to keep things fresh. She is shy and does not like to talk about things which are fine. I keep it spicy. In fact I just started buying toys. She like them but was a little freaked out about them. It was funny at one point I had like 10 new toys hidden by my bed. One of the them I think was called a rabbit I knew would kind of freak her out. So what I did was I ordered a nice silk scarf from amazon and one night i pulled it out. She got nervous but I told her to trust me. I blind folder her than pulled out the rabbit. Its a vibrator with many attachments. When I turned it on she got nervous but within minutes she was quivering. It actually almost made me cum and I wasn’t even touching her... Anyway now she always asks me if the scarf’s coming out. Sometimes i won’t do it just to make sure she does not get tired of it. Any good tips I’m very open to. Anything anyone can share that’s a little different. Or fun... 13 years I want another 30 at the least..