Do girls like to watch?

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  1. jimluvs2

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    Do girls like to watch guys jack-off? Is it a turn-on? Just wondering:)
     
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    I watch my husband sometimes. It's pretty hot! Plus, I find that I make 'mental notes', so that I can use some of the same strokes and touches during foreplay.

    The only down side is that he says sometimes it is harder for him to get off, because I am watching.
     
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    YES!! always has been for me!!
     
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    Well considering that most guys would enjoy watching a woman pleasure herself, I guess its just the same for women watching men IMHO.
     
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    hmmm - not too sure about that. Remember: "Women Are From Venus; Men Are From Mars"! ;)

    As a rule, men enjoy watching two women kiss
    As a rule, women do not enjoy watching two men kiss.

    As a rule, men are visually stimulated.
    As a rule, women are emotionally stimulated.

    As a rule, men could fuck anything with with a human pussy.
    As a rule, women can fuck only if they encounter a deeper connection with the man attached to the cock.

    Of course, we all know that rules are meant to be broken... :lol
    Watching my husband wank is not one of my personal top ten stimuli (is that the plural for stimulate?). However, it can get me going, if the mood is right.
     
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    I'm with you Rose. My boyfriend finds it a real turn to watch me pleasure myself, but I must admit that I don't find it that much of a turn on to watch him jerk it. It's not that it's a turn off or anything, it simply doesn't seem to stimulate me all that much.
     
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    Yes and yes.
     
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    From J,
    Where is this Rulebook? I guess I am supposed to be this neanderthal, club holding, grunting, mindless, pervert and sperm donor. However, this is not in my rulebook. Apparently you haven't met some of us other men of quality. I do agree there is a stigma on a large scale to many, but
    maybe there are a few of us that are an exception to these "rules". It is a shame that we get grouped with a majority. It is just my two cents worth, all I say is give some of us guys a break:).
     
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    If emotionally and deeper connected women view men this way, I think I would rather be on Mars with the men, lol.
     
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    Ummmmm - ... <scratches head> I think you may have missed the point...

    The phrase "As a rule" is a generalization. It does not presume that I, or any one particular person hold to that "norm". Quite frankly, most on this forum would probably NOT. But, regardless of whether we ascribe to the way women are, the fact remains that 'as a rule' most men are visually stimulated and most can enjoy fucking and cumming without any points of deeper contact. Likewise, most women are emotionally stimulated and most women seek some sort of deeper connection with a potential partner

    I'm not stating my personal views, so it's not about me giving someone a break.

    ...so "give me a break"... :rofl
     
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    On the contrary, I am actually quite stimulated by our banter. Whether that is visually or emotionally is no concern. I love quick wit and a firm backbone, you might just need to take that break;).
     
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    Hell yes! It is a total turn on for the both of us. Oh great now I am going to be horny while I am at work.:eek :ugh :nerv :lol :ugh
     
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    You'd think in the year and nine months that my SO and I have been together, I would've seen him whacking it, at least once. But, I haven't. Actually, I haven't really thought about it, and I am sure that it would be a big turn on for me. He says he doens't really masturbate that much since he and I have been together, also. That may have a lot to do with it.
     
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    LOl - it was about 20 - 25 years before I saw my husband. :lol But you are probably right on the money, - you probably haven't seen him, because he's real busy with the real thing. ;)
     
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    he knows that it's a turn on for me, but he wont let me watch...
     
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    so am i

    I like touch me watching my gardiner
     
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    i forget . I liked also watching the wife of my brother
     
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    I don't know what's wrong with guys who won't let their girl watch them masturbate. Hell, my fiance hasn't asked yet, but if she did, I would get so turned on and I would start jacking like crazy! I am just waiting for the day she asks me to let her watch. I would love it!
     
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    I'm with puss, its not a turn off but just doesnt stimulate....I rather be touched.
     
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    Oh yeah... Do tell:brow
     
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