[Ask a Girl] do girls fantasize about it hurting

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  1. theone55

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    when girls fantasize about a huge penis. do they imagine it hurting going in them? do they fantasize about feeling it stretch them? how sore do girls get? whats the soreness like? what do girls imagine when fantasizing of a huge penis in them.
     
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    I don't fantasize about it hurting just stretching.
     
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    Not hurting, just filling.
     
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    filling catered for :D
     
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    I agree with H4H. It's not so much the pain/hurting but that filled up feeling that I fantasize about.
     
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    Yes sometimes a little pain, but most filling and stretching.
     
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    Yes, I imagine it very realistically. I enjoy the pain because with it I get the most intense orgasm, unlike anything you could ever imagine! I like being pounded so hard and fast that I feel like my cervix is bruised because the orgasm I get is so amazing.
    Being stretched out always hurts me because I get so tight. I LOVE it though, first penetration is my favorite part of sex, the pain feels so good.

    The only kind of soreness I don't like are times when inadequete lubrication causes a gritty feeling, like I'm fucking sandpaper. I prefer it as slippery as possible. This doesn't happen with guys until bajillions of hours, but it happens with my plastic toys constantly so I have to keep them lubed up a lot, and I use waterbased lubes which tend to dry out and make things stick, it's so frustrating. I've never been with a man who doesn't have foreskin and I think a cut dick would probably end up feeling sore inside me after awhile, but foreskin is so soft.

    Because after several hours my natural lubrication tends to dry up and I get severely dehydrated LOL. At this time my body goes into overdrive and gets super addicted to constant orgasms so I can never get enough, despite the pain. Then it starts to feel like I'm fucking blades, but I usually continue until I injure myself. At this point he's usually pretty sore also. I still usually don't mind because my orgasms are really intense, but then I have to end up taking 2 days off from masturbation or sex so that it can heal. So I try not to let it get to that point of soreness.
    But it's probably my guess that most women won't get sore, because they are not insane like I am and also seeing as most guys don't last that long in the first place.
     
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    Fascinating.... For some reason I wasn't expecting any serious responses to that question... Lol. The ladies surprised me again..:D
     
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    Well I only fantasize about one penis--the boyfriend's penis that I get every day. It stretches me a little and it fills me wonderfully, but it doesn't hurt unless I have him do it in a way that gives me at least a little pain. I like pain. I fantasize about it hurting quite a lot and the boyfriend being cruel. The poor boy doesn't have a cruel bone (or boner) in his body, but we're working on that. The soreness that I feel sometimes is a little vague, maybe an ache or an irritation. It just reminds me that we had fun.
     
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    I recently had a short lived sexual relationship with someone who was a good bit larger then my husband. He was very wide and me being on the smaller/tighter side in the vaginal department, there was a good bit of stretching involved. It did make me slightly sore (almost bruised feeling) because there's a lot of stretching. It wasn't something that I was used to either, so I'm sure in time it would have gotten easier to take.

    I never fantasized about it hurting me, just filling me. If it's done right, it doesn't hurt at all.
     
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