I hope this subject isn't too depressing (I guess if it is, no one will post and it will just fade...) A friend of mine is going through a divorce and she has always told me that she knew walking down the aisle that he wasn't the right man for her. Another two friends of mine are both still married to their husbands but are not happy and they have admitted that they knew on their wedding day that they shouldn't go through with it. I was wondering, for those of you who are divorced or very unhappy in your marriage (eek, sorry, this really is a depressing thread!!!) when did you know or suspect? If you knew before you said your vows, what made you go ahead and get married anyway?