Well i was down at my parents for a month and it's only 2 hours instead of 4 from my wife. I was all set to see her so we could take care of the papers together and just scheduling. She went from "probably this thursday" to "not this thursday nor next week nor the week after that or the week after that" jeez i would love to have a job like that where i know my schedule that ahead of time! She went into how perplexed she was why i was so hot since "theres no deadline" Here's the thing: I'm going by her game plan she had for me if she was gonna file (at hte time she said her parents were gonna fund it, which they renegged on). She was going to come see me and make me sign them in front of her and refused to mail them cause "you might do something stupid and not sign them." I finally get hte funds and the papers and figured she could make sometime for me. Instead she's perplexed why I wanted to come see her so badly (when i'm following her model for me!) and why i don't just mail them (the same thing she absolutely refused to do for me yet insisted i allow her to do). She did give me an explanation: "you're crazy I'm not" says the lady with the second personality named "Lucy" So I'm between a rock and a hard place. So i'm hoping she mails them off. I think though to her World Of Warcraft and chatting with her Boytoy is more important...but still gotta be optimistic. I'm hoping she'll do it in the next few days, but I am more eager than she is to get this done. I wanna file as early as possible....she doesn't understand or care why. She's got plenty of guys who wanted to fuck her while I was still with her, and surely just as many if not more while we're separated. But hopefully she'll keep her word and I can make her a memory.