Hey folks. I'm looking for some advice or maybe someone who can help me figure out what might be causing problems. I'm having an awful time trying to keep my head (literally here, that thing on top of my neck) into sex. Whenever my wife and I start fooling around, if there's just the slightest thing wrong, it completely shuts down my mood. I mean, if it's too hot in the room, or our cats bang on the bedroom door or there's a song stuck in my head, or ANYTHING, I just can't stop myself from obsessing over it and completely psyching myself out. Forget about sex in hotel rooms, or when there are other people in the house. I've lost erections while in the middle of intercourse because of it. I'm really not sure what the hell my problem is and it's starting to really impact our sex life. My wife is starting to feel like I'm not attracted to her and that's completely not the case. But I just can't seem to sustain the passion. I can be completely rock hard one minute, and then something stupid creeps into my head and I'm limp as a noodle. Help!