Discussing "pegging" with my girlfriend -- beginner tips?

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  1. DarkAndTall

    DarkAndTall New Member

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    Hey all, first time poster here. :)

    A few weeks ago, we went to the annual Everything To Do With Sex Show here in Toronto. Exhibits, demos, products, shows, all the usual stuff you'd expect at a trade show.

    While walking around, we eventually came to a place that sold strap on kits, harnesses, etc. She looked intrigued, gave me a wink, so we wound up getting a "beginner harness", which comes with a 5" dildo, and is not very wide at all, perhaps the width of a Sharpie marker.

    When we have sex, I like it when she licks me, or fingers me; it feels good and is a great sensation, and we've discussed using the harness.

    What are some tips or advice anyone may have on this subject, aside from using lots of lube? I want her to try it on me, and I know she wants to do it, so it's just a matter of actually working up to it.

    Thanks in advanced, and sorry for the long introduction!