Discreet friend

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  1. Chopper9

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    Hey everyone.

    I've got this old school friend, we've seen each other about ten years ago. We work in the same city now. She started to contact me through bbm and then whatsapp. It started of very innocently and progressed to sharing fantasies and now erotic pictures!! Im married and she is involved with someone. She says that she will never interfere with a marriage. What am i to make of this.??? She is very open about her sexuality and i like the things we share! I dont know if she has a hidden agenda! What do you guys think? The pics we share is internet pics and not pics of ourselves! I wouldnt mind to see her naked though! Lol
     
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    Does your wife know about all this? If not, then there's only two options if you want to stay an honest man. Either tell her or stop. I've been on the giving end, and the receiving end of an affair.....both were life changing, and not in a good way.
     
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    This is a very fine line here my friend. Sharing fantasies and porn with a friend is one thing, but actually doing things is another. Even if things are never going to be more than what they are, you may consider being honest about this friendship to your wife. Otherwise, if she discovers it on her own, it could look pretty incriminating.

    xx
     
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    There is physically cheating, and then emotional cheating. Is your wife still who you fantasize about and want to be with, or would you honestly choose dinner out with this friend over your wife? If you wouldn't ALWAYS choose your wife, you need to come clean to your wife now, and do what she says if you value your marriage. My girlfriend and I live together, and if she was doing this, it would be over.
     
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    My fantasies always involves my wife!!! Even if i get horny when talking to this friend i go back home to my wife!!
     
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    So.....when your talking to this other woman about a fantasy or sex.....you are thinking about your wife the whole time? And if you got a picture of this woman naked.....like you said you wanted......you will be thinking of your wife the whole time your looking at this other naked woman?