Hi y'all! I'm new here but I have a question. I recently met someone and we became intimate (after having been with the same guy for 10 years so orgasms were pretty much guaranteed, etc.) but he liked it hard and fast which did nothing for me--it was nice but I knew I wouldn't finish. My question is with several positions--doggy, spooning (?) and me on top, it felt like he was hitting my cervix which made it rather uncomfortable but I didn't stop it--if this is because it was hard & fast or due to the point in my "cycle"? And how can I delicately deal with the issue of him getting me off too?