Dirty words/talk

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  1. Notta

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    Do Dirty words or talk turn you on? If your partner says to you in a sexy way or more aggressive way that they want to fuck does it turn you on or do you prefer a more romantic approach?
     
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    Dirty talk is an absolute turn-on. My wife typically does not talk that way outside of the bedroom, but when she does, it just turns things up to a new level. The raunchier she gets, the hotter the sex is.
     
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    Depends on the situation and the person. If we're already getting hot and heavy, a little dirty talk gets me going. If it's just random dirty talk from a random person or point of time then it's more harsh. I don't enjoy that.
     
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    My wife use to ask if I wanted "to have sex" when we first got together. I preferred "making love" so she changed the way she asked. Now, when I'm fingering her she asks if I want to "lick it". I like that! That's about as dirty as we get. I'll ask her for a blow job sometimes. Asking her to suck dick just seems crass.
     
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    I used to talk in terms of making love but she talks in different terms "fucking" so fucked a girl and I like it!
     
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    I like an approach that might look romantic, but with a wicked look in his eyes, and aggressive talk.
     
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    I like my sex talk to be filthy dirty.
     
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    I prefer to be more loving and gentle :)
     
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    It's all about the context but it's rare for romantic language to do anything for me. Think I'd always prefer "I want to fuck you" to "let's make love". I'd be willing to try for the other person. I think with the way my mind works that even knowing they'd askes me to use certain language would make it sexier.
     
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    Well it really depends on the situation and their are a lot of options. I do like dirty talk , and cussing , but I prefer more " real " and not cheesy "scripted " talk. A good surprising whisper in the ear of something graphic is always nice.