Dildo with wife

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  1. ronhiway

    ronhiway New Member

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    I wanted to know if me wanting to use a strapon on my wife was normal? I think it is exciting, I don't have the pressure of cumming to quick and can make her cum over and over. But she thinks it is not normal and gets offensive if i mention it. She says "why would you want to use that." Should I throw it away and give up?
     
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    I'm not sure if you mean strap on or dildo, but both are perfectly normal. When she asks that question, say it's more fun for both of us testing the waters and spicing things up for the fun of it. If she is still offended, back off a bit with that topic.
     
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    I'm driving so I can't be detailed... but what's normal is an individual choice.
    for me and many, its quite normal and actually one of my favorite things to do in the bedroom at the moment.
    you have to ease into toys sometimes...
     
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    Thanks for the advice.
     
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    She may be confused about why thinking it's just a substitute for the real thing that's completely available. You could get a thick condom or just manually use a dildo. But sounds like she's a lucky girl for you to think that creatively for her pleasure.
     
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    Tough one I say. Tell her to listen to your idea first.
    Would she like it before you and you finish with the real thing?
    Or would she prefer to have you first?
    Tell her the reason why then go from there.

    If I knew my gal is open to it I would use one when my toy is done with until next session. Good idea, I'll look into this for myself.
     
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    My wife LOVES it. We have a few different ones so what ever "tickles" her fancy that night. Also, I like the fact that I don't have to worry about finishing when she wants more.
     
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    the only time I've ever had a guy use a strap-on on me.. well we managed to rig it so he could DP me all by himself (doggy style worked best.. he was pretty thick so we could choose a small dildo for the strap on and use that for anal and him vaginally.. but missionary worked decently too, depending on our mood)